Reid geeks out on non-monogamy with Sex At Dawn’s Christopher Ryan!

Club Exotica presents Sex at Dawn

Featuring a talk by Christopher Ryan, author of  Sex At Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality • sexatdawn.com

Wednesday, November 9th

SupperClub, 657 Harrison Street

Doors open at 7pm

Talk & panel start at 8pm

Dance party  at 10pm to 2am

Proudly Supported by Good Vibrations!

Panel with…

• Carol Queen, co-founder Center For Sex And Culture www.sexandculture.org
• Reid Mihalko, sex and relationship expert www.reidaboutsex.com
• Marcia Baczynski, relationship coach, sex educator www.askingforwhatyouwant.com/
• Polly Pandemonium, founder of Kinky Salon www.kinkysalon.com
• Sara Kiss, hostess Club Kiss www.clubkiss.us
• Wendy O Matik, author of Redefining Our Relationships www.wendyomatik.com
• Philippe Lewis, co-founder Club Exotica
• Jocelyn Agloro, co-founder Club Exotica

Performances by

 Knowa Knowone

(Street Ritual, Muti Music, SF, CA)

streetritual.com

 knowaknowone.com

Dj Jocelyn soundcloud.com/dj-jocelyn-1

El Papa Chango

 Aerial Act

by

Fuego y Rosa

El Circo Beefing Up The Sound

 For Your Eargasmic Pleasure

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Join Club Exotica for a very special evening with Christopher Ryan, author of the bestselling book “Sex At Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality” Ryan will discuss his work and then join Center For Sex And Culture co-founder Carol Queen and a panel of modern relationship luminaries to review the implications of his findings: that humans have never been a naturally monogamous species.

Independent scholar Ryan presents only the data. He does not suggest how to change your life to live in accordance with his reading of human nature. The panelists will pick up where Ryan’s work ends to discuss how people are working to develop new relationship models that are both in line with our nature and work within our modern social context. There will be extensive Q&A and a forum to continue the dialog with panelists late into the evening. This is a unique opportunity to hear Ryan and others address complex, intimate relationship issues in an informal yet elegant setting and meet others working to manage similar challenges and enjoy open intimate partnerships.

The discussion will be followed by live performances and one of San Francisco’s sexiest “second base” dance parties, produced by Club Exotica.

Panelists include:

• Christopher Ryan, author of Sex At Dawn www.sexatdawn.com
• Carol Queen, co-founder Center For Sex And Culture www.sexandculture.org
• Reid Mihalko, sex and relationship expert www.reidaboutsex.com
• Marcia Baczynski, relationship coach, sex educator, author www.askingforwhatyouwant.com/
• Polly Pandemonium, founder of Kinky Salon www.kinkysalon.com
• Sara Kiss, hostess Club Kiss www.clubkiss.us
• Wendy O Matik, author of Redefining Our Relationships www.wendyomatik.com
• Philippe Lewis, co-founder Club Exotica www.clubexoticapresents.com
• Jocelyn Agloro, co-founder Club Exotica www.clubexoticapresents.com

About Sex At Dawn:

• A New York Times bestseller in both hardcover and paperback
• One of NPR’s Favorite Books of 2010
• Winner of the 2011 SSTAR Consumer Book Award (Society for Sex Therapy & Research)
• A Best Book of 2010 (Audible.com)

“The single most important book about human sexuality since Alfred Kinsey unleashed Sexual Behavior in the Human Male on the American public in 1948.” — Dan Savage

“Funny, witty, and light . . . the book is a scandal in the best sense, one that will have you reading the best parts aloud and reassessing your ideas about humanity’s basic urges well after the book is done.” — Newsweek

On an almost daily basis we are inundated with stories about the collapse of the latest celebrity marriage—and infidelity is almost always the cause of the break up. Is it even possible for two people to stay together happily over an extended period of time? Since Darwin’s day, we’ve been told that sexual monogamy comes naturally to our species. But it doesn’t, and never has.

Mainstream science—as well as religious and cultural institutions—has long maintained that men and women evolved in nuclear families where a man’s possessions and protection were exchanged for a woman’s fertility and fidelity. But this narrative is collapsing. Fewer and fewer couples are getting married and divorce rates keep climbing while adultery and flagging libido drag down even seemingly solid marriages.

In SEX AT DAWN, renegade researchers Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá debunk almost everything we “think we know” about sex.

Ryan and Jethá show how our promiscuous past haunts our current struggles regarding monogamy, sexual orientation, and family dynamics. Some of the themes they explore include:

• Why long-term fidelity can be so difficult for so many;
• Why sexual passion tends to fade even as love deepens;
• Why many middle-aged men risk everything for an affair;
• Why homosexuality persists in the face of standard evolutionary logic; and
• What the human body reveals about the prehistoric origins of modern sexuality

Ryan and Jethá show that our ancestors lived in egalitarian groups that shared food, child care, and often, sexual partners. Weaving together convergent, often overlooked evidence from anthropology, archeology, primatology, anatomy, and psychosexuality, the authors show how far from human nature sexual monogamy really is. They expose the ancient roots of human sexuality while pointing toward a more optimistic future illuminated by our innate capacities for love, cooperation, and generosity.

In the tradition of the best historical and scientific writing, SEX AT DAWN unapologetically upends unwarranted assumptions and unfounded conclusions while offering a revolutionary understanding of why we live and love as we do. A controversial, idea-driven book that challenges everything you know about sex, marriage, family, and society.

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60-minutes that will change the way you think about dating and relationships!

Hey, single ladies…

Are you ready to be in a relationship? A really good relationship? Are you wondering where all the “good ones” are and how you can find the kind of love you’ve always wanted? Then join Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com and Marcia Baczynski for Ready to Be in a Relationship: Successful Dating and Partnership for Single Women!

Reid and Marcia will discuss the five most common obstacles single women face in finding great relationships, and some simple steps you can take to increase your odds of getting the love you want. Find out where the good ones are hiding, what to do when you’re not getting clear signals of interest, and the three ways women sabotage their chances at successful partnership (and what to do about it).

If you’ve never heard these two present together, you’re in for a real treat. As friends, collaborators and colleagues for over six years, Reid and Marcia have developed dozens of workshops (including the world-famous Cuddle Party) and are joining forces again for this rare joint appearance. Their easy rapport, hilarious approach and commitment to delivering valuable content makes them one of the best duos in the world of relationship education.

Could it be any better? We think so… that’s why this teleclass is 100% f-r-e-e.

WHEN: Tues Apr 27th at 8pm EDT / 5pm PTD
WHERE: The comfort and privacy of your own home, car, or office. Just dial-in!

Can’t make the call? No problemo. Everyone who registers will receive a download link for the call recording.

Don’t wait! Register NOW for this hour-long tele-seminar that will change everything you know about dating.

ABOUT MARCIA: Marcia Baczynski is the head relationship coach at Ideal Balance Inc, a lifestyle coaching company for professional and entrepreneurial women.

A graduate of the University of Georgia and San Francisco Sex Information, Marcia is also well-known for being co-creator of Cuddle Party, a workshop/social event about boundaries, communication, intimacy and touch. Started in 2004, Cuddle Party events have spread globally, with over 50 facilitators in five countries. Marcia has made appearances on the Montel Williams show, People magazine, Fox News, Penn & Teller’s Bullsh*t, NPR, GQ, Marie Claire and Newsweek. She splits her time between San Francisco and New York.

Marcia can be reached at 1-800-208-0913 and marcia (at) idealbalanceinc (dot) com

Reid Mihalko: Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (Cuddle Party, Speed-Flirting) to the rated-R (Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, Show-N-Tell sex education workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes, and ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and health adults in and out of the bedroom.

Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.

Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Not Three Call, But FOUR! NotTen Amazing Experts… THIRTEEN!
Get the 411 on How YOU Can Beat Jealousy!

One thing I got out of the call, in just ten minutes, is confirmation and affirmation…. I wanted to face my insecurities…. Just listening to you guys is encouraging!… Being with my feelings and staying with that… Oh, yeah, I’m not alone!

~Tori Read MORE Testimonials Here

What happened were four teleclasses that were jammed packed with relationship experts, therapists, educators and specialists each sharing their thoughts and life experiences on dealing with the Green-Eyed Monster!

Together, these “jealousy black belts” brain-dumped as much useful info, personal perspectives and hard-won wisdom and advice as they could into each of the 90-minute calls. With a completely different line up of experts on each call, what came out of it at the day’s end were three insightful recordings focused on one of the most feared, debilitating, and misunderstood emotions in relationships: Jealousy!

And if good things come in threes, then you definitely want to check out these downloadable recordings ’cause we’ve got four! Four times the knowledge and the resources! Listen in as Reid and friends show you how you can kick jealousy’s butt rather than have it kicking yours!

On these calls, you will learn…

• Different ways of looking at and understanding jealousy
• Tools, tips, and tricks for effectively battling the Green-Eyed Monster
• How to stop fearing jealousy and living and loving boldly
• Ways you can use jealousy to actually, believe it or not, IMPROVE your relationships!

We will also cover…

• Techniques for understanding and dealing with a jealous partner
• How to create teamwork in your relationships when it comes to jealousy
• Things you can do to make your relationship-world a less jealous one!

Jealousy isn’t just about romantic relationships either, you know! You can experience jealousy over your children taking up too much of your partner’s time, or become jealous over a co-worker’s promotion, or even a lover’s favorite hobby could trigger jealous twinges…

So what’s a person to do?

Download the calls and listen in as we make sense of what jealousy is, how it impacts our lives, and how we can gain the upper hand. Whether you’re experiencing jealousy on a regular basis, in love with someone who does, or just afraid that jealousy might rear it’s ugly head, these four calls will give you a wealth of information!

Register NOW Be Listening To Your Download Links in Minutes!

COST: Only $27!

For less than $7 per 90-minute call you’ll receive this amazing resource for information on one of the most feared emotions in relationships. Begin getting over your fear of jealousy today!

Questions? Email Reid at reid (at) reidaboutsex (dot) com

Day of Jealousy’s
Guest Panel of Jealousy Experts

CALL 1
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DR. YVONNE K. FULBRIGHT: Currently the “sexpert” for foxnews.com, Yvonne, founder of www.SexualitySource.com, was identified by the U.S. Secretary of Health as an expert and key leader in the area of sexual and reproductive health and became consultant to the U.S. Surgeon General’s Call to Action on “Promoting Responsible Sexual Behavior” at just 23-years-old.

Armed with a Master’s in Human Sexuality Education from the University of Pennsylvania, Dr. Yvonne is the author of several books, acting not only as a titillating sex educator, but the voice of a generation in: Your Orgasmic Pregnancy: Little Sex Secrets Every Hot Mama Should Know, Pleasuring: The Secrets to Sexual Satisfaction, Touch Me There! A Hands-on Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots, Sex with Your Ex and 69 Other Things You Should Never Do Again… Plus a Few that You Should, and The Hot Guide to Safer Sex.

Dr. Yvonne received her Ph.D. in International Community Health Education, focusing on sexual health and parent-child sex communication, at New York University, where she was also a sexual health advocate and the scribe behind the buzzworthy “Sexpert Tells All” in the Washington Square News. Today, she makes frequent appearances on the “Dr. Manny Show” on Fox, and was the former co-host of Sirius Maxim Channel 108′s “Sex Files.” Dr. Yvonne is also the sex expert for Comcast’s Dating on Demand squad, SexHealthGuru.com, and cherrytv.com.

This sensually sophisticated and prolific sex educator is also a Love & Sex Coach for AOL Coaches, a sexuality blogger for the Huffingtonpost.com’s Lifestyle Section, and an expert with the Internet’s Sexual Health Network and loveandhealth.ifriends.net. A member of its advisory board, Dr. Yvonne writes the monthly “Kiss & Tell” Q&A feature for Women’s Health Magazine.

A Certified Sex Educator through the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), Dr. Yvonne is the book and media review editor for Contemporary Sexuality. With over a decade of teaching experience behind her, Yvonne is a professor of human sexuality for Master’s of Counseling students at Argosy University. She is currently wrapping up a post-doctoral fellowship in sexual and reproductive health with the University of Iceland’s Faculty of Nursing.

Yvonne is currently working on her seventh book.

DIANA ADAMS, ESQ: Diana Adams of www.feministoutlaw.com is a relationship educator who also runs her own sexual civil rights law practice in New York City. She teaches workshops on effective communication, tools for healthy nonmonogamous relationships, physical self-defense, and more, and offers individual and relationship coaching.

Diana will be appearing on the award-winning docuseries MTV True Life: I’m Polyamorous this August, has been featured in the New York Times, the Washington Post, New York Magazine and on Current TV.

LEN DALEY: Len Daley has 50 years of experience helping people. His education in Psychology, Education, Bodywork and experience as a family and couples’  therapist, consultant, leader and problem solver, as well as being the father of 12 and grandfather of 16 have prepared him to be of valuable service to humankind.

He is Certified Cuddle Party Facilitator #001 and was one of the first people to bring Cuddle Parties to the Deep South. Len is currently the Executive Director of EDUCO Inc, Foundations of Facilitation Trainingand also of the Certified Cuddle Party Facilitator Community. Len hails proudly from Montgomery, Alabama, where jealousy is alive and well… For now!

MARCIA BACZYNSKI: Marcia Baczynski is director of relationship programming at www.IdealBalanceInc.com.

An extraordinarily talented workshop designer and facilitator, teacher, coach and leader who is passionate about providing the world with better tools for relationships and sexuality and empowering people to use them, Marcia landed herself in the international media spotlight as co-creator and spokesperson of the unique communication and intimacy workshop Cuddle Party.

An expert in gender dynamics, sexuality and interpersonal communication, she combines a keen analytical ability with warm personal skills to provide her clients and students with an experience of being seen, being validated, learning something new and feeling smarter for it.

In her work with couples and singles, she helps clients to identify what they want out of their relationships and how to create it. As director of relationship programming for Ideal Balance, Inc., and as co-creator of Cuddle Party, Marcia has worked with thousands of people, teaching them about boundary-setting, non-sexual intimacy, and effective interpersonal communication.

Marcia is a graduate of the University of Georgia, where she studied public relations, history and women’s studies. She has been a Barbara Sher Success Team leader, a guest lecturer on sex and gender at CUNY, and featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. From a young age, Marcia has been heavily involved in volunteer work, participating in projects as diverse as the 1996 Olympic Games, HIV education and awaremess, boat-building for kids in alternative schools, and the Burning Man arts festival.

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NINA HARTLEY:Nina Hartley of www.nina.com is one of the most endearing and enduring performers and sex-positive educators in the adult film industry.

A published author, director, performer, activist and educator, Nina got her start in 1982, during her sophomore year of nursing school when she started working as a stripper at Mitchell Brothers O’Farrell Theater. In 1984, during her junior year, Nina made her foray into the world of pornographic movies debuting in the massive adult film hit Educating Nina. After graduating with her nursing degree, Nina went into adult film full-time, going on to feature in over 650 adult films and become one of the most recognizable adult performers and sex educators in the industry.

Politically, Hartley considers herself a liberal and an outspoken sex-positive feminist. Addressing other women, she said “Sex isn’t something men do to you. It isn’t something men get out of you. Sex is something you dive into with gusto and like it every bit as much as he does.” Hartley has been an advocate for the adult film industry’s right to exist, and, before the rise to stardom of Jenna Jameson, had often been called on when television news programs and talk shows required an articulate, leading adult film actress to support the pro side. She appeared most notably on The Oprah Winfrey Show.

In 1997, Nina appeared in the hit, Hollywood film Boogie Nights with Mark Whalberg, playing William H. Macy’s serially unfaithful wife.

In 2006, Avery Press, a subsidiary of Penguin Group, published, Nina Hartley’s Guide to Total Sex.

In addition to her more traditional roles in porn films, she has also produced, directed, and starred in a series of Guide to… films covering the entire sexual spectrum, from basic sexual intercourse and foreplay, to anal sex and bondage.

Nina remains active as a performer and educator still appearing on television as an outspoken advocate for sex between consenting adults, and in adults films (cast now as the cougar or GILF). Nina can also be found pumping out (pun intended) high-quality instructional videos marketed under the “Nina Hartley’s Guide” brand distributed by Adam & Eve. [parts of this bio excerpted from Wikipedia]

DOSSIE EASTON: Dossie Easton (www.DossieEaston.com) is a licensed psychotherapist and co-author of The Ethical Slut (published in 1997 and re-issued in 2009 in it’s 25% bigger, 2nd edition!). Dossie has also co-authored The New Bottoming Book and The New Topping Book, When Someone You Love Is Kinky and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence as well as numerous articles and essays the world over.

In her private practice, Dossie works with individuals, couples and moresomes, with a particular interest in how SM journeys into Shadow can bring old wounds into the healing light of consciousness and and give individuals a shot of life force in the form of good, hot sex.

An active sex radical since 1961, Dossie was a member of the first Board of Directors of the Society of Janus in San Francisco in 1974. In the eighties under the name of Hidebound Leatherware, she had a business crafting whips and restraints. Currently she makes her home in the mountains north of San Francisco, travels around to teach and present at conferences the world over, and spends her nonexistent free time hiking the hills declaiming filthy poetry to the vultures and hosting outrageous pajama parties. She’s very excited to be flogging the long awaited 2nd edition of Slut with co-author Janet Hardy far and wide!

BABA DEZ NICOLS: Baba Dez is a Daka, author, singer-songwriter, and transformational guide, trained in the Sacred Temple Arts of Tantra to teach, inspire, and support others in their integration of the divine masculine and feminine (Shiva/Shakti) energies within.

He is the founder of the Sedona Temple and School of Temple Arts and the Annual Daka-Dakini Conferences for sacred sexual healers, Tantra teachers and practitioners. He has studied, assisted, and been blessed with the presence and wisdom of many masters around the world for over 30 years.

His path is to travel worldwide and help others deepen in their truth and power, find healing & enjoyment in transformation, and manifest grounded results. He is currently on tour promoting the release of his documentary Manifesting Maya, his book Sacred Sexual Healing: The Shaman Method of Sex Magic and his music CD Thank the Moon.

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DR. CAROL QUEEN: Dr. Queen (www.CarolQueen.com) is a writer and cultural sexologist with a Ph.D. in human sexuality. She is a noted essayist whose work has appeared in dozens of anthologies. Her essay collection, Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture, was published in 1997 and reissued in 2002; it is read in university classes across America.

Her erotic stories can be found in several Best American Erotica volumes, among many other anthologies; her erotic novel, The Leather Daddy and the Femme, was published in 1998 and won a Firecracker Alternative Book Award the following year. Her first book, Exhibitionism for the Shy, published in 1995, explores issues of erotic self-esteem and enhancement and will be reissued with new material in 2009.

She is co-editor of the anthologies Best Bisexual Erotica (volumes One and Two), Sex Spoken Here, Switch Hitters, and PoMoSexuals; the latter won a Lambda Literary Award in 1998. She’s also edited Whipped! and two volumes of 5 Minute Erotica, short-short erotic fiction. She has appeared in several explicit educational videos, notably “Carol Queen’s Great Vibrations: An Explicit Consumer Tour of Vibrators” and “Bend Over Boyfriend: An Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Male Anal Pleasure.” She’s the writer and presenter of “G Marks the Spot: The Good Vibrations Guide to the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation.”

Queen works as staff sexologist and Chiel Cultural Officer at Good Vibrations, the women-founded sex toy and bookstore in San Francisco, where she has worked since 1990, and blogs for the Good Vibrations web magazine at www.goodvibes.com.

She has addressed numerous scholarly and professional conferences, including the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, the International Condom Conference, the International Conference on Prostitution, and the International Conference on Pornography; she frequently addresses college as well as general and specialized audiences. This past February 2009, Dr. Queen debated the question of promiscuity (“Virtue or vice?”) for the Oxford Union at Oxford University, England.

Carol Queen is active on behalf of progressive sex education and sexual minority issues. Perhaps most closely affiliated with the bisexual and sex work communities, she has been speaking publicly about non-mainstream sexualities, from lesbian to leather, for over 25 years. Her perspective in addressing sexual diversity incorporates personal experience, accurate sex information, and informed cultural commentary. For more information (including CV and bibliography) see her website.

DR. DEBORAH TAJ ANAPOL: Deborah Taj Anapol, Ph.D., (www.sevenlawsoflove.com) attended Barnard College, graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of California at Berkeley in 1975 and received her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of Washington in 1981. She is a leading edge healer, writer, and teacher. In 1984, she founded the Sacred Space Institute (formerly IntiNet Resource Center and The Abundant Love Institute), a national organization dedicated to reintegrating sexuality into spirituality and health care and expanding the boundaries of the family.

She is the author of several books. Her latest is The Seven Natural Laws of Love (2005) and she is currently at work on a book about harmonizing feminine and masculine energies. Dr. Anapol also authored Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits (1997), and co-founded Loving More Magazine as well as produced the video, Pelvic Heart Integration.

Dr. Anapol has worked with groups, partners, and individuals who are exploring conscious relationships and sexual healing for over two decades, leads workshops nationwide, and is an inspiring and illuminating speaker. She is available for individual coaching, phone counseling, seminars, and public speaking engagements.

MARK MICHAEL LEWIS: Mark Michael Lewis is the author of RelationDancing and Problems Are The Solution – two guides to creating thriving and fulfilling partnerships, as well as The Key Is In The Darkness: Unlocking The Door To A Spiritual Life.

He has spoken before thousands of people, consulted with hundreds of businesses, and coached hundreds of individuals and couples on fulfilling relationships, communication skills, financial success, and personal development. Mark has a degree in Psychology and combines insights from over 20 years of helping clients.

Mark Lives and practices in the San Francisco Bay Area, where he is working on new products, books, seminars, and virtual internet learning experiences that encourage the blossoming of humanity through the Game Of Thriving and the Life By Design Institute. He can be reached at http://makingloveeasy.com and http://GameOfThriving.com

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KELLY BRYSON:  Kelly Bryson, MA (www.LanguageOfCompassion.com) is aLicensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Certified Nonviolent Communication Trainer, Author, Public Speaker and Life Coach.

Author of the best selling book, Don’t be Nice, Be Real – Balancing Passion for Self with Compassion for Others, COVER TEXT: A Handbook to Nonviolent Communication™, and contributor to the anthology The Marriage of Sex and Spirit (with Deepak Chopra,  John Gray, Scott Peck, Margo Anand, Wayne Dyer, Thich Nhat Hanh, Riane Eisler, and Barbara Marx Hubbard), Kelly has been featured in Elle and Shape magazines and appeared on many TV and Radio shows speaking about relationships dynamics and effective communication skills.

Kelly keynotes conventions (National Montessori, Salinas Peace Summit, International Network for Children and Families to name a few), is an inspirational speaker (Presented at the Association for Global New Thought conference), and has been an authorized trainer for the international Center for Nonviolent Communication for over 20 years. Kelly has trained thousands of people in the U.S., Europe and the Middle East. He trains, presents and consults with groups, corporations (Tony Robbins, Paul Mitchell Salons), churches (all flavors), schools, (U.Cal.L.B, Body/Mind College), clubs and all types of organizations.

Besides living in an ashram for years, Kelly has also studied with E. Stanley Jones, Gandhi’s concierge and friend, and managed to add talented humorist and singer to his many talents. Kelly is currently a licensed therapist in private practice in Northern California and founded the Shangri La Healing Sanctuary community in Santa Cruz, California.

KAMALA DEVI: Kamala Devi of www.BlissCoach.com is a down to earth tantra goddess who has been studying and practicing yoga, tantra, sacred sexuality, and sexual healing during her extensive travels for the past eleven years.

A prolific writer, Kamala is the author of Don’t Drink the Punch: An Adventure in Tantra, Sacred Sexual Healing with Baba Dez Nichols and Teaching Tantra the EROTIC WAY as well as numerous stage plays. She is currently working on a manuscript with Reid entitled, Free-Love, Can you Really Afford it?

Kamala has recently appeared nationally on Tyra Banks’s Tyra, theMorning Show, Inside Edition, MTV and several programs overseas.

DECKER CUNOV: Decker Cunov is the President and Founder of AuthenticWorld.  Known internationally for inspiring people towards more fulfilling relationships, his unique approach to transformation is identical to the way he has created profound intimacy in his own life and in his own communities.

His experience ranges from co-founding a counseling center for homeless yosuth, to implementing intrinsic motivation theory to various military trainings, to residence in Buddhist monastaries over the years.

Decker has spent the past 13 years working successfully with everyone from soldiers to teenagers, from the clinically dysfunctional to doctors & lawyers, from a mechanic in Wisconsin to top level executives across the country, helping them reach unprecedented levels of success in an organic and profound way

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Experts Who, At The Last Minute, Couldn’t Join Us
But Whom You Should Know About…

BARBARA CARRELLAS: Barbara ofwww.BarbaraCarrellas.com is an author, sex coach, university lecturer, workshop facilitator, motivational speaker and theater artist. Her most recent books are Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century andLuxurious Loving: Tantric Inspirations for Passion and Pleasure.

Barbara’s pioneering Urban Tantra® workshops were named best in New York City byTimeOut and New York Magazine. She is also the co-founder of Erotic Awakening, a groundbreaking series of workshops that toured the United States and Australia.

Barbara currently offers inspiring and life-changing workshops, lectures, and keynotes on a variety of topics to individuals, schools, conferences, businesses and the arts.

Barbara hosts the call-in show Sex…with Barbara Carrellas on HayHouseRadio.com, where she helps people balance their sexual and spiritual lives, and answer callers’ questions about love, sex, spirituality and healing. Barbara and her long, time partner, write and performance artist, Kate Bornstein.

ANITA WAGNER: Anita Wagner ofwww.PracticalPolyamory.com is a polyamory advocate, writer, spokesperson and educator. She serves as a member of the Board of Directors of LovingMore, is co-founder and past board member of Chesapeake Polyamory Network and is co-founder and former member of the Board of Directors of the Institute for 21st Century Relationships/the Foundation of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. She currently serves as CPN’s representative to the Coalition Council of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, and is a past member of NCSF’s Board of Directors. She is also a founding member of the Greater Washington Area chapter of Unitarian Universalists for Polyamory Awareness.

Anita has appeared on television in interviews on polyamory in Washington, DC and Baltimore, in newspaper articles in the Baltimore Sun, Washington Post and Salon.com, amongst many others, and has presented educational programs on polyamory at Dark Odyssey, Black Rose, Building Bridges, Free Spirit Beltane Gathering, Florida Poly Retreat, and the Loving More® West Coast and East Coast conferences.  She was keynote speaker on polyamory and the media at Florida Poly Retreat 2008.  She was a featured speaker at the 2007 Polyamorous NYC Polyamory Pride celebration.  She authored articles on polyamory and bisexuality published in Loving More® Magazine and ITCR’s Relating© newsletter, respectively.

Do you spend more time taking care of others than you do taking care of yourself? Do you have a hard time saying No or speaking up for yourself? Are feelings of guilt holding you back from asking for what you want? Do you think that you dont deserve to be taken care of or that your self-worth is measured by how happy you can make others?

Join sexual civil rights lawyer and relationship educator Diana Adams, and world renowned sex educator Reid Mihalko for a frank, humorous, and enlightening series of downloadable podcasts designed to give you the skills and know-how to receive more, assert and nourish yourself in all areas of your life, especially relationships!

Complete call descriptions below…

Teleclass #1: Six Tools For Women Who Give Too Much
Things You Can Begin Doing Today to Give Less and Get More!
with Diana Adams, Esq., and Reid Mihalko

Teleclass #2: Asking for What You Want
Getting Your Needs Met In and Out of the Bedroom
With special guest expert, relatioship educator Marcia Baczynski

Teleclass #3: How to Argue Like a Lawyer
Being Fearless in Difficult Conversations
With special guest expert, big-time negotiation lawyer turned feminist blogger Carlin Ross, Esq.

Teleclass #4: Feeling Great About Saying No
Communicating Guilt-free Boundaries
With special guest expert, erotic educator Dr. Betty Martin

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Complete breakdowns for Calls 1 thru 4…

Teleclass #1: Six Tools For Women Who Give Too Much
Things You Can Begin Doing Today to Give Less and Get More!

with Diana Adams, Esq., and Reid Mihalko

In this FREE 90-minute teleclass, Reid and Diana will launch into an overview on how women who give too much can make themselves the priority and increase their confidence!

We will go over how to:

• Take care of your own needs and reclaim your sense of priority
• Be compassionate for those you love without caving in
• Distinguish your own needs and create powerful boundaries
• Ask explicitly for what you want
• Be fearless in difficult conversations and lessen feelings of guilt
• Let go of relationships that arent serving you
• Support yourself and those you love in ways that invigorate and excite you!

This call is for women and their male allies who want to support the women in their lives on how to better take care of themselves. Callers who attended the teleclass when it was recorded ask questions and get honest advice from Reid and Diana.

ABOUT DIANA: Diana Adams is a relationship educator and runs her own sexual civil rights law practice in New York City. She teaches workshops on effective communication, tools for healthy nonmonogamous relationships, physical self-defense, and more, and offers individual and relationship coaching.

Diana has appeared on the award-winning docuseries MTV True Life: I’m Polyamorous, has been featured in the New York Times, the Washington Post, New York Magazine and on Current TV.

Learn more about Diana at www.feministoutlaw.com!

Teleclass #2: Asking for What You Want
Getting Your Needs Met In and Out of the Bedroom

with Diana Adams, Esq., Reid Mihalko and communication expert Marcia Baczynski.

Do you lie back and wait for relationships and jobs to come to you? Do you have trouble speaking up? Would you like to be more active in making your desires a reality?

If you enjoyed the first call and the overview we gave, join Diana, Reid and special relationship and communication expert Marcia Baczynski for an in-depth 90-minute teleclass devoted solely to removing the fear in asking for what you want so you can get what you deserve!

In this fun yet poignant teleclass, you will learn ways to:

• Get comfortable making requests and with the possibility of hearing No.
• Tap into your self-esteem and realize that you deserve to have what you want instead of always settling for less.
• Learn how to be unstoppable in realizing your dreams!

You’ll get to hear questions from our participants and the answers Reid, Diana and Marcia come up with, too. What are you waiting for? Adopt a “Yes means Yes” perspective on life and master asking for what you want!

ABOUT MARCIA: Marcia Baczynski is director of relationship programming at www.IdealBalanceInc.com.

An extraordinarily talented workshop designer and facilitator, teacher, coach and leader who is passionate about providing the world with better tools for relationships and sexuality and empowering people to use them, Marcia landed herself in the international media spotlight as co-creator and spokesperson of the unique communication and intimacy workshop Cuddle Party.

An expert in gender dynamics, sexuality and interpersonal communication, she combines a keen analytical ability with warm personal skills to provide her clients and students with an experience of being seen, being validated, learning something new and feeling smarter for it.

In her work with couples and singles, she helps clients to identify what they want out of their relationships and how to create it. As director of relationship programming for Ideal Balance, Inc., and as co-creator of Cuddle Party, Marcia has worked with thousands of people, teaching them about boundary-setting, non-sexual intimacy, and effective interpersonal communication.

Marcia is a graduate of the University of Georgia, where she studied public relations, history and women’s studies. She has been a Barbara Sher Success Team leader, a guest lecturer on sex and gender at CUNY, and featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. From a young age, Marcia has been heavily involved in volunteer work, participating in projects as diverse as the 1996 Olympic Games, HIV education and awaremess, boat-building for kids in alternative schools, and the Burning Man arts festival.

Teleclass #3: How to Argue Like a Lawyer
Being Fearless in Difficult Conversations

with Diana Adams, Esq., Reid Mihalko, and feminist blogger Carlin Ross, Esq.

Do you wish you could argue like a tenacious lawyer? Ever feel like men are better at arguing and holding their ground in a conversation? Maybe youre the kind of woman who has lots to say, but cant seem to get your point across or say things the right way when conversations get heated or animated?

Well, if youve ever kicked yourself in the pants for not holding your ground in a conversation or felt hesitant to jump into a verbal fray, this is your time to release your inner Law & Order attorney and learn how to speak with conviction!

Join sexual civil rights attorney Diana Adams, Esq., sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko and their special tele-guest expert, big time negotiations lawyer-turned-feminist blogger Carlin Ross for an in-depth, 90-minute teleclass on effective strategies for arguing confidently!

In this invigoratingly unique teleclass, you will learn ways to:

• Make your point without having to yell
• Get over your mental blocks and fears regarding arguing
• Redefine arguing and passionate conversation in ways that are positive and actually increase intimacy in your relationships
• Hold your intellectual ground with men, women, your bosses, and even your parents!
• Make arguing a fun game instead of a relationship-ender

ABOUT CARLIN: Carlin Ross is a sex-positive feminist blogger and entrepreneur who has transcended her “ESQ” tagline to position herself at the forefront offemale sexuality.
Ms. Ross worked with the New York State Attorney General’s Office in their Internet and Civil Rights Bureaus before going in-house as General Counsel of an ISP which raised $1B on wall street. She left her law career to run a lifestyle brand for women: cherrybomb. The site launch was featured on the front page of the NY Times on February 24, 2004.

Carlin has interviewed sexperts such as Ian Kerner, Helen Fischer, Candida Royalle, Dr. Judy Kuriansky, and Dr. Barbara Bartlik for the Sex Herald. And she has written/produced/directed several erotic features for Playgirl TV in addition to an original DVD feature.

She has appeared on The Sharon Osbourne Show, CNN, MSNBC, and Dateline and radio shows including Afternoon Advice on Playboy Radio.

Most recently, Carlin has partnered with Betty Dodson and created a sexuality portal for women under the brand Dodson and Ross. Together, they’re launching an online video series “Basic Sex Skills: The New Porn.”

Teleclass #4: Feeling Great About Saying No
Communicating Guilt-free Boundaries

With Diana Adams, Esq., Reid Mihalko, and Erotic Educator Dr. Betty Martin

Do you have difficulty in saying no? Wish you were better atenforcing your boundaries? Do you avoid rejecting people and, in doing so, often end up participating in things you’d rather not? Does feeling guilty often influence your decision-making?

Many women feel they can’t say no because they care too much or don’t want to hurt the other person’s feelings. But the inability to say No powerfully is often about fear and insecurity. And while we may know that the most considerate thing we can do is give someone an honest and compassionate No, we struggle and often sellout on ourselves. The results are a wishy-washy Maybe, a lackluster No or, worse, we say Yes when we want to say No.

Join Diana Adams, Esq., Reid Mihalko and their special tele-guest, erotic educator Dr. Betty Martin for 90-minutes designed to get you feeling great about saying no!

In this, the last call of the teleseries, we will teach you how to:

• Get used to saying No when its not life threatening so you
• Use saying No as a self-esteem builder
• Leave the people you say No to feeling seen and appreciated
• Give a stress-free No
• Find your own style and way of saying No
• How to use saying No as a means to getting something youre a Yes to!

If saying No is something you’ve always wanted to master, or you’d love to stop feeling guilty for taking care of yourself, then you definitely don’t want to miss downloading and listening to this MP3!

ABOUT BETTY: Dr. Betty Martin is a Chiropractor, Body Electric School trained Sacred Intimate, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Foundations of Facilitation trainer, and a self-propelled erotic adventurer and intimacy coach.

One of those lucky people who grew up in the touchy feely hippie years, Betty got serious and went to Chiropractic school and made touching with clear intent a career. First in therapeutics (Chiropractic, Somato-Respiratory Integration, Educational Kinesiology, Reiki, Neuro-Emotional Integration) and later in body-based erotic education (sensual massage, Taoist Erotic Massage, Kashmiri tantric massage and Sexological Bodywork), Betty has amassed close to 30 years experience as a hands-on professional.

Understanding the importance of communication in the realm of hands-on work and play, Dr. Martin has also amassed an equally impressive skill set when it comes to boundary setting, negotiation, and clear communication.

Betty has taught peer counseling, gender liberation, embodiment and empowerment, fantasy play, goddess awakening and erotic massage. She has played with contact improv dance, liberation theater, personal and group ritual, authentic movement, non-violent communication and Shaivic tantra.

Betty currently trains and certifies new facilitators for the touch and communication workshop called Cuddle Party and speaks and teaches at conferences and gatherings around the world.

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JUST $47 for Calls 2, 3 and 4! Call #1 is yours for FREE!

100% Money Back Guarantee if You’re Not Fully Satisified!

I’m so certain that the advice, tools and tips on these calls are going to improve your life that Diana, Marcia, Carlin, Betty and I want to take away any reason for you to say No. So, I’m offering a FULL 100%-MONEY BACK GUARANTEE on ALL FOUR CALLS! That’s right. If for any reason you aren’t satisfied with the content of your experience and the price you paid for it, just ask me for a refund and I’ll give you your money back, no questions asked (you can even keep the MP3s you’ve received as my thanks for trying something out that I created)!

Cost for Calls 1 thru 4 is just $47!
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Questions? Email Reid at reid@reidaboutsex.com

Download the Two, 75-min Podcasts

Press and media coverage is one of the best ways to promote your work, and, escpecially in today’s economy, free press is one of the most effective ways to increase your business.

But when the press comes a’knockin’,
what do you say and how do you get it right?!?

Sex and relationship experts and media whizzes, Reid Mihalko and Marcia Baczynski know the answers.

In these two, informative, 75-minute calls, the creators of the media phenomenon Cuddle Party will teach you how to:

• Speak to the media in a way that doesn’t have you sounding like a crack-pot
• Design powerful, effective talking points effortlessly and ways to deliver them so you can give great interview!
• Understand the differences between television, print and internet media so that your message reaches the people you want it to

How To Talk to the Media About Sex includes 2 1/2 hours of vital information PLUS your own 30-min, one-on-one consultation call with the Reid-miester himself!

That’s right! Included in this teleseminar is your very own
one-on-one consultation/coaching call
where you get personal attention from the experts.
That alone is worth the $99!

Listen in on the questions callers asked on the calls, take what you learn and apply it to the homework Reid and Marcia will suggest, and then have Reid help you with your media message one-on-one when you’re all done!

Not sure if this product is for you? See what Reid has to say about media savvy in this discussion panel from 2010′s 3rd Annual Sex 2.0 Conference… Yep, watch for FREE! Enjoy…

Sex 2.0 – Media Whoring – Tips from the Pros from Castle Megastore on Vimeo.

In this panel, Cunning Minx, Danielle Sipple, Jasen Bartlett, maymay, Reid Mihalko and Veronica Monet will discuss media strategies. Topics will range from TV, radio, and print, to social networking and online media, to twitter, to youtube, to monitoring your presence online, to anything else that pops up! Come engage and be prepared for a lively discussion with this wide variety of media professionals.

Recorded Nov 5 & 12, 2008
and Ready for Download Now!
Cost for the 2-calls
and your 30-min coaching call when you’re done:
$99