Most of us spend more time choosing our latest cell phone than learning how to develop and deepen relationships…

The general view is you either instinctively know how to create relationships, or you don’t. There are the charismatic, attractive people… and the rest of us. Love either hits you over the head, or it doesn’t.

Humans need to love and be loved in order to thrive. Yet, most of us spend more time choosing our latest cell phone than learning how to develop and deepen relationships. And that’s not your fault!

Most of us feel disempowered and lost when it comes to creating meaningful, loving relationships that make life juicy and delicious. After all, fates had to align for Snow White and her Prince–right?

Are you tired of waiting for your glass slipper to arrive, or your white horse to trot up and lead you to your dream partner? Or does your current relationship lack the spark and delight you believe in your heart is possible?

The truth is there are specific actions you can take,
and specific skills you can develop,
that will enable you to feel POWERFUL in relationships.

We’re not talking about following a set of rules or sleazy approaches. We’re not talking about trying harder… We’re talking about a new pragmatic approach that is authentic and unique to you… that will let your inner self shine and attract the types of people who are naturally an amazing fit for you.

“That which you seek is seeking you.”

— Rumi

Why not make it easy for your connections to find you?

The average person is still functioning with the same skills that got them (awkwardly) through their fifth grade dance. Most of us go through our lives hoping to stumble on the person who will “make us” feel fulfilled. We go shoe shopping at a trout farm… and wonder why we can’t find a single pair of shoes to fit our feet! We start thinking there is something wrong with us, that love has passed us by, or perhaps we’re not worthy.

We want YOU to find fulfillment and possibilities in this New Year.

Creating Connection: 6-Calls, Plus BONUSES… Only $47

30-Day Money Back Guarantee

In this intensive course, we will:

• Guide you through the steps to creating pathways and a state of being that allows you to find people who authentically match with you, and
• Show you simple techniques that allow you to efficiently identify the people who are able to function well in loving relationships. (If you’re already in a relationship, these steps can help reawaken the reasons you were attracted in the first place).
• Then we’ll guide you to deepen and strengthen the relationships in unexpected and heart opening ways.

This isn’t about shallow cosmetic fixes. You get to create the depth, warmth, and passion you’ve always wanted!

When: Calls will begin at 8:30pm EST
Call Dates – Week 1: January 23, 24, 25th
Call Dates – Week 2: January 30, 31 and February 1st

Join Reid Mihalko, Cathy Vartuli and Rick Wilkes as we share unexpected and life changing approaches and do some Tapping (EFT) to get you started.

Because we believe the world is a better place when people feel
empowered to find and create meaningful relationships,
we’re offering the Creating Connection course for…

Only $47

We want YOU to find fulfillment and possibilities in this New Year.

30-Day Money Back Guarantee

Plays Well With Others: Negotiating Relationship Boundaries and Agreements for Group Sexploration!

Navigating group sexual dynamics in any relationship takes skill, patience and a little bit of luck. If “luck” is where opportunity and preparation meet, then learning how to negotiate sound relationship boundaries and agreements is a sure-fire way to make the two, or three, or four of you the luckiest people on Earth!

With the dizzying array of relationship options available to people who’ve decided to “play well with others,” how do you, and your partner or partners (if you’ve got any), figure out what will work best? What is open to renegotiation? And what do you do when the inevitable challenges arise or when someone makes a bad call?

Join sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for a two-hour workshop devoted to single people, couples, and multiple partners who want to learn how to create workable boundaries and agreements for playing sexually with others simultaneously.

In this humorous, interactive evening, you will learn:

• The most common pitfalls of relationship agreements for group sex and how to avoid them
• How to figure out what a boundary is and where your boundaries exist, so all involved can negotiate a win-win!
• How and when to renegotiate an existing rule or agreement
• Negotiating techniques for when you’re the single person joining in with a couple or moresome
• How to merge different styles of “sexploration” in monogamy and nonmonagamy so that everyone has a decent chance of ending up happy “the day after”
• Five essential things that will help you survive any group sexploration
• How to work through upsets in ways that will make your relationships stronger

This workshop is open to couples and singles and moresomes of all sexual orientations and relationship statuses.

Whatever you level of experience and curiosity, whatever your relationship status or orientation, Reid promises an informative evening chocked-full of great communication and relationship skills!

Curious about booking Reid for a private class? Go HERE!

ABOUT REID: Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (Cuddle Party, Speed-Flirting) to the rated-R (Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, Show-N-Tell sex education workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes, and ask questions), Reid’s workshops have been attended by close to 30,000 individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and health for adults in and out of the bedroom.

Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.

Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Follow Reid twittering as @ReidAboutSex.

Let’s Talk About It w/ Sameon with guest Reid Mihalko

Listen Here Online!
(or telephone in from the comfort of your home, car or office…)

Show Host: Sameon
Date: Tuesday, Feb 24, 2009
Time: 5-6:30pm EST/2-3:30pm Pacific
www.blogtalkradio.com/iamsameon for more info…

Show topic: Five Secrets to Attracting a Perfect Partner

Are you someone who continuously attracts the wrong people to date? Do you know someone who can’t seem to meet the right people? Have you ever dated someone who was “almost everything you wanted,” but not quite perfect, or settled for someone just so you wouldn’t have to be lonely? Perhaps you don’t even know what qualities you’re looking for that would make for a perfect partner, and have even less of an idea how you figure such things out?

Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for a down and dirty, pragmatic conversation about attracting the perfect partner!

In this episdoe, with time for you to call in and have your questions answered, Sameon will get Reid to show us:

• How to get out of your own way so your perfect partner can find you
• What to say and what to ask so you’ll know when you’re meeting a potential perfect partner
• Ways to be clear and concise in your communications so you can begin attracting the relationship you want
• How to get your perfect partner to approach you
• Tools for building a powerful relationship once you’ve attracted that perfect partner

If you would you like to set aside trial and error for a bit and delve deep into how you can attract someone who is truly worth the investment of your time and energy, then you definitely have to tune into this episode with thoughtful host Sameon.

Whether you’re in a relationship or not, this show will provide some useful tools for relationships, period! Join us, and don’t forget to share the opportunity for others to be blessed… Lets Talk About It with Sameon and special guest, Reid Mihalko!

From Rough and Tough to Limp and Wimpy: Where Do Men Go From Here?

This Podcast’s Focus:

From Rough and Tough to Limp and Wimpy: Where Do Men

Go From Here?

Recorded: Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Cost: FREE!

LiYana’s hot panel of expert men:

Reid Mihalko: Cuddle up with Reid Mihalko, coach, sex educator, co-founder of the acclaimed Cuddle Party and creator of Speed Dating, whose sex-positve projects and coaching give men and women the skills and permission to share more honestly and powerfully about sex and intimacy and to create the relationships that are their true self-expression.

Decker Cunov: Speak up with Decker Cunov, executive coach and co-founder/lead facilitator of the Authentic Man Program, a transformational seminar intensive designed for men to move past their insecurities with women and the “pick-up” scene and gain ease in relating with everyone in their lives as well as a deep appreciation of themselves.

Tripp Lanier: Get it straight from Tripp Lanier, coach and creator of the wildly successful “The New Man” podcast show through Personal Life Media, giving men cutting-edge information and support to move beyond beyond being the “nice guy” without sacrificing any of the good stuff – like smokin’ relationships, rock-star sex lives, successful careers and wildly rewarding lives.

Is romance even possible over time or is it just a “Honeymoon-phase” sort of thing? Can romance be a daily practice? And what do connection and romance have to do with one another and how can they strengthen relationships with others and with one’s self?

Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for a playful (and connected) two hours of discussion, exercises, and romance just in time for Valentine’s!

We’ll break down and answer such vexing questions as…

• “What the hell do women mean when they say ‘Be more romantic’?” 
• “How does one romance a man?” 
• “Can romance be a daily practice and what does that look like?” and… 
• “Oh god, what am I going to do for Valentine’s Day?!”

You’ll find out what the top romantic activities are (hint: It’s not what you think!). Discover how you can get the object of your affection to be more romantic with you, and learn how to add a little romantic playfulness to your life regularly, or even daily (without the cheese or cliché).

Whether you need some last minute ideas for Valentine’s Day, or want to bring more passion, tenderness or mystique into your relationships as a daily practice, this entertaining workshop will leave you laughing and inspired. Bring a date, bring a friend, and arm yourself with tools, tips, and tricks to make your life more romantic!

Cupid’s Early-Bird Discount… Save $10-off when you pre-pay!

• $20 pre-paid before Feb 11th
• $30 day of and at the door

Questions? Email Reid at reid@reidaboutsex.com

Let’s face it: Valentine’s isn’t always easy. Maybe you have kids. Maybe the both of you have been working late at the office on account of the recession. Maybe you two have been together long enough to feel more like “best friends forever” than love birds who keep the neighbors up all night… Whatever the reasons, how would it feel to knock the sox off of your loved one this Valentine’s?

Learn exactly how Reid designs each and every one of his workshops!

SPECIAL Offer: Get a FREE 30-to-60 minute workshop design coaching call with Reid!

Based on the practices that made the communication workshop Cuddle Party an international success, this 5-part, 5-week course will introduce a unique and revolutionary set of concepts and practices for creating your own workshops, allowing you to enroll whole communities of participants, and leave everyone wanting for your next series of workshops and creations!

In this detailed and valuable course, you will…

• Learn how Reid designs all of his world famous workshops
• Learn how to align your creations to your self-expression so your workshops  become effortless to teach and talk about
• Learn how to distill massive amounts of brainstorming material and ideas into a cohesive, concise, easy to deliver format
• Use this approach over and over at no additional cost to design workshops for the rest of your life!

This course is regularly sold for $497! Get it today for $397!

You get…

• Five, hour-long call downloads with Reid Mihalko and Marcia Baczynski
• One comprehensive workbook/manual with 5-separate homework assignments, one for each call!
• Download links for each call and the manual with each calls’ corresponding worksheets will be automatically emailed to you upon purchase!

Work at your own pace in the comfort of your home or office! Take as long as you need. No need to get overwhelemed, but start today! The world needs you to birth that workshop you’re being called to create!

SPECIAL OFFER: One, FREE 30-to-60 minute
workshop design coaching call
with Reid when you complete the course!

Just email him your finished workshop, and call to schedule your free coaching call so you can get Reid’s experienced opinion and advice! What are you waiting for?

Reid’s More Than Your Money Back Guarentee:
If, when you complete the course, you’re not completely satisfied,
you get your money back and still get your free coaching call!

Poly expert and publisher of Loving More magazine, Robyn Trask joins LiYana Silver and Reid Mihalko November 10th to lend her expertise, input and insight on open relationships to Poly-Curious 101′s Call #2 (Starting a Polyamorous Relationship).

Register for all three calls and join Tristan Taormino, the author of Opening Up, on Nov 3rd as we explore the basics of polyamory on Call 1! 

For more info on Poly-Curious 101, CLICK HERE!

“Where is he?” and “How do I keep her happy?” are the most common questions I get about relationships today!

All the time, at conferences, at social events, and in emails, powerful women find out that I do sex and relationship education and eventually ask me, “Where are all the great men who can stand up to me and be my equal in a relationship???” And, just as often, the men (and lesbians) who are in love with these powerful, amazing women, after they find out what I do for a living, plead with me, “Dude, how do I make her happy?!”

Something is happening out there in the world of powerful, grounded women and those who love ‘em!

I think something’s happening that’s never been there before, or at least wasn’t there for our parents and our grandparents. So, the big questions are: What’s happening and What can we do about it? Well, sex and relationship specialist and friend LiYana Silver and I got to talking. We started comparing notes on what she and I have been experiencing out in the trenches of relationship hell. The result of that conversation was this 2-call teleseminar!

What people have to say about Call 1:

Several nuggets really stuck with me from this call. One of them was when you were going through the “tool bag” of empowerment for women and you said “Being right with yourself” and making sure you are “Sensually satisfied” as a women. And I saw how, when I’m not in a relationship with a man, how I will deny myself sensual satisfaction… It triggered a lot of thoughts for me about how I fall away from self-care for myself when I don’t have a partner to share that with.

~ Rebecca

$27 for Both Calls!

In this downloadable, 2-call series, LiYana and I dive deep into answering…

• With radiant and powerful women emerging everywhere, where are the men to match them?
• How can women be strong, independent and expressed and also leave some room for the guys?
• How can men become more powerful, potent and magnetic through their support of women?

I hope you find it as valuable as the callers who joined us when we recorded this series!

Call 1: Powerful Women in Partnership

Reid interviews Liyana Silver about ways powerful women can balance their partnerships and love relationships and still embrace the masculine and the feminine within themselves. How to attract men who can actually meet you where you are in your journey. And how you can have a juicier, more intimate, fulfilling love live!

Call 2: I’m In Love with a Powerful Woman. Now What?

LiYana has a no-hold-barred, candid conversation with Reid Mihalko on how to hold space and love powerful women in a culture with few role models. Yep, Reid’s gonna talk openly about how he attracts powerful women and how you can too, AND keep them glowing and you feeling great!

Join Reid Mihalko and LiYana Silver by downloading and listening to both of these calls as they delve into the phenomenon of strong, powerful women, the relationships they are having (or not having), and the men who love them. Particular attention will be spent on how to handle the frustrations that can show up and how best to navigate the shifting interpersonal dynamics and power dynamics of today’s relationship high seas! These two podcasts are great for men and women, and listen in as callers ask their own personal questions and receive expert advice!

Only $27 for Both Calls! 100% Money Back Guarantee!

Read the Expert Bios for Reid and LiYana!

Another testimonial…

Foundations of Free Love
3-day relationship workshop exploring open relationships with Reid Mihalko and Kamala Devi

Nov. 21-23, 2008 • San Diego, California

Space is limited, so please register early! Fee: $497

Call 858-272-2254 or email Kamala (at) blisscoach (dot) com to register!