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		<title>Queer, Poly, And Under 30! A Discussion Panel Moderated By Reid Mihalko</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s it like to be queer, polyamorous and under 30 in today&#8217;s world? 
2011 marks the 50th anniversary of the publishing of Stranger In A Strange Land, one of the first popular, American novel containing a consensual non-monogamous subplot. Forty-one years ago the Stonewall Uprising ignited the gay liberation movement. And 29 years ago, IBM [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/QueerPoly30.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4372" title="QueerPoly30" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/QueerPoly30-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a>What&#8217;s it like to be queer, polyamorous and under 30 in today&#8217;s world? </em></h1>
<p style="text-align: left;">2011 marks the 50th anniversary of the publishing of<em> Stranger In A Strange Land</em>, one of the first popular, American novel containing a consensual non-monogamous subplot. Forty-one years ago the Stonewall Uprising ignited the gay liberation movement. And 29 years ago, IBM would release the world&#8217;s first PC&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">So what&#8217;s today&#8217;s world like for queer, poly folk born in and after 1981?</p>
<p>Join sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com as he moderates and interviews a discussion panel filled with just that: The queer, the poly, and the under 30!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Date: </strong>Thursday, August, 19th, 2010<br />
<strong>Time: </strong>7-9pm Pacific<br />
<strong>Where: </strong>San Francisco<br />
<strong>Cost: </strong>$10 suggested donation. No one turned away for lack of funds!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>All ages, orientations and relationship self-expressions welcome!</em></h3>
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<h1><em>Our Panelists&#8230;</em></h1>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/AllisonMoonHeadshot.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4381" title="AllisonMoonHeadshot" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/AllisonMoonHeadshot-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>ABOUT ALLIE: </strong> Sapphic savant and former &#8220;mayor&#8221; of <a href="http://CampBeaverton.org" target="_blank">Camp Beaverton for Wayward Girls</a>, Burning Man&#8217;s home for queer women, Allie has been doling out sex tips for years.</p>
<p>Certified by the Ohio Board of Health in STD and HIV prevention, Allie also works for the LA Gay &amp; Lesbian Center, and writes sex advice for a number of publications as well as throwing the occasional Girl-Sex 101 workshop. A dynamic and down-to-Earth speaker, she&#8217;s a pro at helping novices earn their stripes.</p>
<p>Allie is finishing her first novel (one in a series) about a pack of college-age, lesbian werewolves. You can follow Allie&#8217;s literary exploits and musings on neo-gender feminism and furry, paranormal things at <a href="www.talesofthepack.com" target="_blank">www.talesofthepack.com</a>.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Katie-Diamond-selfport.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4414" title="Katie Diamond selfport" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Katie-Diamond-selfport-140x300.jpg" alt="" width="140" height="300" /></a>About Katie: </strong><a href="http://www.katiediamond.com" target="_blank">Katie &#8220;Megaphone&#8221; Diamond</a>, originator of the queer, feminist sex magazine <a href="http://www.salaciousmagazine.com" target="_blank">SALACIOUS</a>, is a radical queer comic artist and graphic designer living in Portland, Maine. She strongly believes in the direct cross-over of art and politics, and uses this dogma in her every-day art practice. She&#8217;s done many illustrations and cartoons about gender, sexuality, and sex education. She&#8217;s also designed many pamphlets, flyers, and posters for various local organizations.</p>
<p>Throughout Greater Portland, Diamond is organizing and implementing exciting local events. She&#8217;s the organizing force behind the Portland <a href="http://www.drsketchysmaine.com" target="_blank">Dr. Sketchy&#8217;s Anti-Art School</a>, and has been a co-producer of the Portland Femme Show for the past two years.</p>
<p>Diamond graduated from the Maine College of Art with a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Illustration. At MECA, she obtained the nickname of &#8220;Megaphone&#8221; because of her intense involvement in the communities of the school, and Greater Portland. Using illustration as her springboard, Diamond has organized a Voting Education and Registration Drive; put into action a huge Sex Education collaborative project; taught art classes to disadvantaged youth; painted a mural with elementary and high school students at their school; and designed posters and pamphlets for local non-profits.</p>
<p>Stylistically, she has been heavily influenced by cartoonist Alison Bechdel; comic artist Adrian Tomine; cartoonist Roberta Gregory; comic art historian Trina Robbins; and the late printmaker Kathe Kollwitz. Politically, Diamond looks to Kathe Kollwitz, as well as groups such as the Guerilla Girls and subRosa for inspiration as an artist-activist-advocate.</p>
<p>Keep an eye on the bookshelves in August, when Diamond will be published in the up-and-coming &#8220;Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation.&#8221; In a creative collaboration with queer vaudevillian cohort Johnny Blazes, Diamond&#8217;s comics move to the story-telling level to aid in telling Blazes&#8217; story of genderqueeritude and self-discovery.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/maymayHeadshot2010.png"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4400" title="maymayHeadshot2010" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/maymayHeadshot2010-300x225.png" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>About Maymay:</strong> Meitar Maymay Moscovitz has been an active member of alternative sexuality communities since 2002. <a href="http://kinkontap.com/?author=2" target="_blank">An outspoken, sex-positive feminist blogger</a>, he authors several blogs on sexuality issues including the explicit photography blog <a href="http://malesubmissionart.com/" target="_blank">MaleSubmissionArt.com</a> that explores submissive masculinity and his personal &#8220;sex blog&#8221; at maybemaimed.com. He also co-hosts the weekly KinkOnTap.com Internet talk show discussing the interconnectedness of sexuality through politics, medical science, news and more. In 2009, he co-founded the all-ages educational KinkForAll series of sexuality unconferences in New York City that has since spread to 5 cities including Washington, DC and San Francisco. An open source programmer by day and a sexual freedom activist by night, Maymay&#8217;s passion lies in analyzing the intersection of technology and human sociosexual behavior.</p>
<h1><em> </em><em>Our Moderator&#8230; </em></h1>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3" title="Sex and Relationship Expert Reid Mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif" alt="" width="286" height="192" /></a>ABOUT   REID: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps   adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in   their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression   of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex   Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex   education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and   ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from    myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and    religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid    travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating  on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence  and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on    relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher    at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and    television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly    in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,    Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn    &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’   <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire,  GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as   well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least   seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Boundaries and Agreements 101: From Bottom Lines To Bliss In Love and Romance (Seattle)</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 02:48:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let Reid Mihalko help you figure out &#8220;how to figure out&#8221; (and how to communicate) what you need to make your relationships work best!
No matter whether your single, dating, married, monogamous or polyamorous, if you don&#8217;t know what works for you and how to communicate it, you&#8217;re in for trouble&#8230;.
If you haven&#8217;t a clue what [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/line_in_the_sand.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4295" title="line_in_the_sand" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/line_in_the_sand-300x204.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="204" /></a>Let Reid Mihalko help you figure out &#8220;how to figure out&#8221; (and how to communicate) what you need to make your relationships work best!</em></h1>
<p>No matter whether your single, dating, married, monogamous or polyamorous, if you don&#8217;t know what works for you and how to communicate it, you&#8217;re in for trouble&#8230;.</p>
<p>If you haven&#8217;t a clue what your boundaries are, if you &#8220;kinda know &#8216;em&#8221; but could use some more clarity, or if you know them but don&#8217;t know how to put them into words, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">this 2-hours is for you</span>!</p>
<p>Join sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for a humorous and pragmatic, PG-13 rated, 2-hours of relationship negotiation made simple. Learn black belt relationship skills in how to figure out what your needs are in love and romance, the needs of your partners, and how to put it all into words!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Date: </strong>Friday,  13th, 2010<br />
<strong>Time: </strong>7-9pm<br />
<strong>Location:<a href="http://www.smsconline.com" target="_blank"> </a><a href="http://www.sharmacenter.org/main/" target="_blank">The Sharma Center</a></strong><br />
<strong>Cost:</strong> $15 pre-register, $20 at the door<br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;">Due to the   center&#8217;s limited space (40 people tops!), the address is  only given out   after you RSVP • Please RSVP for all Sharma Center  Events at  rsvp@sharmacenter.org • Please call on the day of the event   206-898-5876 for availability if you haven&#8217;t RSVP&#8217;d.</span></p></blockquote>
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-24" title="Reid Mihalko (over shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-278x300.jpg" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a>ABOUT  REID: </strong>Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps people create more  self-esteem and greater health in their relationship and sex lives, no  matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.</p>
<p>Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of  life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known  for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the  country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating. He has been a  writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about  sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on  relationships and sexuality. He has also appeared on the Emmy  award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and  Single, Showtime’s Penn &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files  and SexTV, and the short-lived Life &amp; Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim  Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People,  Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in  thirteen countries and at least seven languages.</p>
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		<title>Energetic Sex Workshop Electrifies Seattle, Aug 14-15th 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Jul 2010 00:22:10 +0000</pubDate>
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  An Expansive and Experiential  Weekend Exploring Kundalini,  the &#8220;Tantric Twitchies&#8221; and Vibrational  Luvin&#8217; with Live  Demonstrations!


Lots of people are curious about Tantra and ecstatic sex, but don’t find the New Age approach appealing. If you&#8217;ve got a low tolerance for words like “chakras’ and “yoni,” you can still discover [...]]]></description>
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<dt><em> </em> <strong><em><strong><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Electric-Sex-Yab-Yum-couple.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4356" title="Electric Sex Yab Yum couple" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Electric-Sex-Yab-Yum-couple.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>An Expansive and Experiential  Weekend Exploring Kundalini,  the &#8220;Tantric Twitchies&#8221; and Vibrational  Luvin&#8217; with Live  Demonstrations!</em></strong></em></strong></dt>
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<p>Lots of people are curious about Tantra and ecstatic sex, but don’t find the <em>New Age</em> approach appealing. If you&#8217;ve got a low tolerance for words like “chakras’ and “yoni,” you can still discover how to experience and play with sexual energy!</p>
<p>Sex and relationship expert (with a sense of humor) Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com will not only explain how sexual energy works but <span style="text-decoration: underline;">show you</span>!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energeticsexoakland.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Hands-On Energetic  Sex with Reid Mihalko " src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energeticsexoakland-300x225.jpg" alt="Reid demonstrates the what he calls &quot;Tantric Twitchies&quot;    (Kryias) for the audience with the generous help of Amber Seitz at a    workshop in Oakland" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em>2-Days devoted to developing your awareness and mastery of sexual energy&#8230; </em></h4>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Come to 1 or both days</span>!<br />
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<p>Cultivate your awareness of sexual energy and give yourself the tools for engaging and expanding your energetic experiences (solo or with a partner)&#8230; And witness <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>live demonstrations</strong></span> of what &#8220;Energetic Sex&#8221; can look like! Plus, tips for unlocking and activating pressure points on your partner’s body to enhance sexual energy, and lots, lots more&#8230; (And of course, if you do like the “woo,” Reid has plenty to offer you, too, in this unique 1-day or 2-day experience!)</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>Day-1  will be Rated-R. Day-2 will be more explicit. Read below&#8230; </em></strong></h3>
<p><strong><em>This  2-day workshop Intensive is designed for curious  beginners,  intermediate seekers and advanced practitioners. </em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em> </em></strong>Perhaps you’ve heard of Tantra and remember reading  somewhere (last month’s <em>Cosmo</em>?) something about “expanded  orgasms,” but think that kind of stuff is only for people like Sting,  yoga instructors or Jedi.</p>
<p>Maybe you or a lover has had ecstatic experiences in the bedroom  involving post-orgasmic spasms that seem to have a mind of their own,  but these spasms come and go infrequently enough that you can&#8217;t tell if  they&#8217;re real or not.</p>
<p>Maybe you or your lover get these spasms all the time and you&#8217;ve  since named them &#8220;the twitchys,&#8221; and when you told your friend the  Kundalini yoga instructor about &#8216;em, they lit up and told you those  spasms have a Sandskrit name called <a title="What the heck is a  Kriya?!?" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kriya" target="_blank">Kriyas</a> (which you promptly forgot &#8217;cause you don&#8217;t speak Sandskrit).</p>
<p>Whatever your level of experience with sex that seems to be &#8220;more  than just sex,&#8221; join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid  Mihalko for 2-days of humorous and informative instruction, sex  education, and live demonstrations on this esoteric (and yet more common  than you think) realm of sex: Energetic Sex.</p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>Day-1 will  be Rated-R with a Show-N-Tell, Watch and Ask  Questions format. All  Day-1  demonstrations will be fully clothed.  Day-2 is Rated NC-17, with  more explicit demonstrations. Participants  on Day-2 will be practicing  fully-clothed exercises. No one under 18  admitted to either day, and no  participant nudity.</em></strong></h3>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><em> </em><em>Register  ASAP.</em></h2>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>Day-2  Limited to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">ONLY 20 Adults</span>, with Day-1 attendance a  pre-requisite. </em></h3>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Date: </strong>Saturday  and Sunday, 14th adn 15th, 2010<br />
<strong>Time: </strong>1-5pm both days<br />
<strong>Location:<a href="http://www.smsconline.com" target="_blank"> </a><a href="http://www.sharmacenter.org/main/" target="_blank">The Sharma Center</a></strong><br />
406 Dexter Street<br />
Seattle WA 98109<br />
<strong>Cost:</strong> Day-1 only: $97<br />
Both Days: $197<br />
Day-2: Attendance at Day-1 is a prerequisite to participate in Day-2.</p>
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<dt style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>Both  Day-1 and Day-2</strong></em></dt>
<h2><em><strong>Day-1: You&#8217;ll watch while Reid demonstrates. </strong></em></h2>
<h2><em><strong>You will be introduced to:</strong></em></h2>
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<li>Reid&#8217;s particular views on how sexual energy &#8220;behaves&#8221; and how it  “works,” as well as ways you can begin accessing more energetic  awareness in the bedroom</li>
<li>What Kriyas (&#8220;the twitchys&#8221;) can look like and what to do when you  or a lover experiences them</li>
<li>Three possible approaches for engaging sexual energy and expanding  it when exploring energetic sex with a partner or solo with yourself</li>
<li>What playing a singing saw has to do with energetic sex and  expanding your lovemaking</li>
<li>Simple breathing and &#8220;presence&#8221; techniques to build up energetic  awareness</li>
<li>How to use &#8220;pressure play&#8221; and where so you can help unlock and  activate points on your lover&#8217;s body to augment energetic experiences  during love making</li>
<li>A few advance tips and tricks that will make you smile and your  partner moan regardless of whether &#8220;the twitchys&#8221; happen or not!</li>
</ul>
<h2><em><strong>Day-2: Sunday limited to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">20 participants only</span>! </strong></em></h2>
<p><em><strong>The group will watch explicit demonstrations from Reid and his  models to review and enhance techniques covered on Day-1. Reid will  introduce <span style="text-decoration: underline;">fully-clothed, voluntary</span> exercises for class  participants, </strong></em><em><strong>along with personal and group coaching and  guidance,</strong></em><em><strong> to begin exploring, embodying and anchoring the  content. </strong></em></p>
<h2><em><strong>Some of Day-2&#8217;s content:</strong></em></h2>
<ul>
<li>How nudity changes sexual energy</li>
<li>Techniques to enhance energetic lovemaking on female and male  gendered bodies that are naked as opposed to clothed</li>
<li>Techniques to keep erotic energy &#8220;in check&#8221; when and if you happen  to be easily excitable and your partner becomes <span style="text-decoration: underline;">VERY</span> excited&#8230;</li>
<li>Fully-clothed exercises you and a partner can use to practice  energetic sex (and time during Day-2 to try them out, if you&#8217;re a yes!)</li>
<li>A variety of sexual positions that can help unlock and  activate and  energize you and your lover&#8217;s bodies  during love making</li>
<li>Live demonstrations of advance tips and tricks that will make you  smile and your  partner moan regardless of whether &#8220;the twitchys&#8221; happen  or not!</li>
<li>How to prevent energetic &#8220;burn out&#8221; or -as Reid likes to say- &#8220;How  not  to fry you and your partners&#8217; brains!&#8221; <img src='http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </li>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>Come  see for yourself just</strong><strong> <span style="text-decoration: underline;">how energetic</span> sex can be! And begin  embodying it, too!</strong></em></h3>
<p><em><strong> </strong></em>Whether you&#8217;d like to believe that energetic sex is  possible but have never felt it, have a lover that experiences &#8220;the  twitchys,&#8221; or it&#8217;s YOU who&#8217;s the one flopping around in bed wanting to  learn how to harness these sexual energies, Reid&#8217;s <strong>Hands-On  Energetic Sex Intensive</strong> is for you.</p>
<p>Please remember that this workshop spans <strong>Reid&#8217;s R-Rated </strong>and<strong> Rated NC-17</strong> <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/workshops/workshops/" target="_self">workshop offerings</a>, which means no one under 18 will  be admitted. Why the age cutoff? Because Day-2 of this workshop includes  explicit (and, at times, quite humorous) sexual content and adult sex  education. Day-1 is just as funny and frank, but it will be more  R-rated. If you are not okay with frank demonstrations, sexual language,  and nudity, then please refrain from attending Day-2 of this workshop  and consider attending only Day-1 or one of Reid&#8217;s other Rated-R or  Rated-PG13 workshops. Thanks!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">This is  not a partner workshop. You may attend solo, but we encourage you to  bring your friends, so spread the word!</h3>
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<dt style="text-align: center;"><em><strong>Both  Day-1 and Day-2</strong></em></dt>
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<p><em><strong> </strong></em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Workshop participants will not have to participate</span>.  Day-1 of this workshop is designed for participants to watch, take  notes, ask questions, and to learn. Day-2 is designed with voluntary,  fully-clothed exercises for participants to begin exploring, embodying  and anchoring the information, techniques and teachings. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">No  participants will be getting naked during these two days</span>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Not  sure what Energetic Sex is? Download Reid&#8217;s FREE PODCAST BELOW&#8230;</strong></p>
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		<title>Tallulah Sulis Soaks Reid Mihalko, Aug 5th, in Oakland&#8217;s Hottest Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 21:26:33 +0000</pubDate>
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Watch  and Learn as Real Sex  Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best  Bedroom Moves&#8230;

What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can   actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head?
Let&#8217;s face it, sex is one of the few things [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Tallula-Sulis-Headshot.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4216" title="Tallula  Sulis Headshot" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Tallula-Sulis-Headshot-232x300.jpg" alt="" width="232" height="300" /></a>Watch  and Learn as Real Sex  Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best  Bedroom Moves&#8230;</em></strong></h1>
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<p style="text-align: left;">What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can   actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Let&#8217;s face it, sex is one of the few things we&#8217;re not allowed to learn   by watching others. You go to a fancy dinner. You don&#8217;t know which  spoon  to use. You watch to see what spoon everyone else uses&#8230; But  don&#8217;t  know what to do how in the bedroom, or want to add a few tricks  to your  repertoire? No such luck!</p>
<div style="text-align: left;"><em>Until now&#8230;</em></div>
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<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Tonight&#8217;s   Iron Slut Sex Educators:<br />
Reid Mihalko<br />
VS.<br />
Certified Somatic Sexologist,<br />
Sex Ed Film Producer,<br />
and &#8220;Pro-Squirter&#8221;&#8230;<br />
Tallulah Sulis!</strong></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Iron Slut Sex  Educator Showdown" src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo-300x170.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="170" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko and celebrate sex ed film producer and &#8220;<a href="http://www.CircleSquirtShop.Com" target="_blank">pro-squirter</a>,&#8221; Tallulah Sulis, and watch as they go hand-to-hand sharing their  personal stories and bed room  secrets!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>DATE: Thursday, August 5th, 2010<br />
TIME: 7-9:30pm<br />
LOCATION: Fruitopia event space</strong><br />
1080 23rd Ave. Ste. 110, Oakland CA 94606<br />
<strong>COST: $30 day-of at the door; $25 advanced, on-line tickets and $20 for Threesomes and Moresomes!</strong></p></blockquote>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://ironslutwithreidandtullulahsulis.eventbrite.com" target="_blank"><img title="sign_me_up_button" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sign_me_up.gif" alt="sign_me_up_button" width="141" height="28" /></a></p>
<div>In this entertaining, informational, guaranteed-to-be-funny and   friendly &#8220;competitive&#8221; throwdown, we&#8217;ll let the audience watch, take   notes, ask questions, and, when the dust finally settles, meet these   extraordinary educators and mingle with like-minded people.</div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em>Show up to this Rated-R and NC-17 workshop designed to empower adults   around their sex lives and get folks smiling!</em></h4>
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<p><em> </em><strong>Show up to this fun-filled, 2-and-a half hour workshop and   learn:</strong></p>
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<ul>
<li>What sex educators do under the covers and how</li>
<li>Their best tips and tricks (and probably not the kind you read about   in Cosmo)</li>
<li>Their favorite, black belt sexy-sexy time moves!</li>
<li>And much, much more&#8230;</li>
</ul>
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<p>We can&#8217;t  promise you badly dubbed voice-overs or high-jinx dramma  like  television&#8217;s Iron Chef, but we can promise you some down-to-earth,   applicable sex and relationship education. The only theme ingredient  is  education!</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Iron   Slut is a wealth of sex geekery and informative experience that you   don&#8217;t want to miss.</h2>
<div style="text-align: left;">If you were a big fan of &#8220;I&#8217;ll show you mine, if you show me yours&#8221;   as a kid, or you always wished there was a reality show called   &#8220;Shagging With the Stars,&#8221; then this workshop might be for you. Tell   your friends. Bring a date. Bring a note book, too, while you&#8217;re at it!</div>
<h4 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Because  of Sex Educator Showdown&#8217;s sometimes explicit and frank nature and live  demonstrations,  no one under 18 admitted. Please try to arrive on time.  And, as with all  of Reid&#8217;s workshops, you can always leave early.</strong></h4>
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<p><em><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Tallula-Sulis-Headshot.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4216" title="Tallula  Sulis Headshot" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Tallula-Sulis-Headshot-232x300.jpg" alt="" width="232" height="300" /></a></strong></em><strong>ABOUT TALLULAH: </strong>Tallulah Sulis is a certified Somatic Sexologist, sex educator and director and producer of the film, <em>Divine Nectar: A Guide to Female Ejaculation</em>.</p>
<p>Performance artist, sex and relationship counselor and coach, Tallulah teaches workshops around the country for over 6 years.  She has information products about female ejaculation and the G-Spot available online for men and women.</p>
<p>You can visit Tallulah at:<br />
<a href="http://www.CircleSquirtShop.Com" target="_blank">www.CircleSquirtShop.Com</a><br />
<a href="HTTP://www.tallulahsulis.com" target="_blank">www.TallulahSulis.com</a><br />
<a href="http://www.SquirtYourHeartOut.com " target="_blank"><br />
</a></p>
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-24" title="Reid Mihalko (over shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-278x300.jpg" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a>Reid Mihalko: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps  adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in  their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression  of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex  Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex  education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and  ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from   myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and   religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid   travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on   relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher   at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and   television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly   in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,   Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn   &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’  <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire, GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as  well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least  seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Polyamory In The 21st Century! An Intimate Interview with Deborah Taj Anapol</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 20:02:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From Before Anyone Called It &#8220;Polyamory,&#8221; To Now, And Into Tomorrow&#8230;

Polyamory, literally meaning &#8220;many loves,&#8221; is the practice of simultaneous, close, emotional, and possibly sexual, relationships with two or more other individuals with the knowledge and consent of all partners concerned. The growing practice of polyamory in the U.S. indicates a significant shift in the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1 style="text-align: left;"><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Poly21stCenturyTak.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4185" title="Poly21stCenturyTajAnapolTalk" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Poly21stCenturyTak-300x205.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="205" /></a>From Before Anyone Called It &#8220;Polyamory,&#8221; To Now, And Into Tomorrow&#8230;<br />
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<p style="text-align: left;">Polyamory, literally meaning &#8220;many loves,&#8221; is the practice of simultaneous, close, emotional, and possibly sexual, relationships with two or more other individuals with the knowledge and consent of all partners concerned. The growing practice of polyamory in the U.S. indicates a significant shift in the way marriage and intimate relationships have evolved over the last few decades.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Join Reid Mihalko for an intimate conversation</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">with Dr.  Deborah Taj  Anapol, one of</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">the first authors to write about</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">polyamory, to see where her current book</h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">on poly has ended her up!</h3>
<p style="text-align: left;">Join Reid Mihalko for an intimate conversation with Dr. Deborah Taj Anapol, author of one of the first books on poly (<a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/free-reid-stuff/reid-recommended-stuff/" target="_blank"><em>Love Without Limits</em></a>, 1992), about her latest book, <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/free-reid-stuff/reid-recommended-stuff/" target="_blank"><em>Polyamory In The 21st Century</em></a>,  and where she see&#8217;s consensual non-monogamy, as well as monogamous relationships, heading into the future.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">
<p style="text-align: left;">Whether you&#8217;re poly, poly-curious, or just a relationship geek, join Reid at San Fran&#8217;s Center for Sex and Culture for what is going to be an amazing dialogue and interview!</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px; text-align: left;"><strong>Date: Friday, July 16, 2010<br />
Time: 7:30-9:30pm Pacific (Doors open at 7pm.)<br />
Where: San Francisco&#8217;s <a href="http://sexandculture.org/" target="_blank">Center for Sex and Culture</a></strong><br />
<strong>1519 Mission Street @ 11th and S. Van Ness, SF, CA 94103<br />
</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Eavesdrop in on this intimate, one-on-one conversation. Participate in the Q&amp;A period, and ask Taj your questions. Meet Taj and Reid, and mingle with like-minded, sex-positive men and women. Come experience one of the great pioneers and herstorians of polyamory!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>$10 suggested donation.<br />
No one turned away for lack of funds. </strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>This event will be filmed and begins promptly at 7:30pm.<br />
Please arrive early to get a seat. This event will fill up!</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><a href="http://lovewithoutlimits.com"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-385" title="Deborah Taj Anapol" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/taj_in_white-300x225.jpg" alt="Deborah Taj Anapol" width="300" height="225" /></a>ABOUT TAJ:</strong> Deborah Taj Anapol, Ph.D., (<a href="http://www.lovewithoutlimits.com/" target="_blank">www.LoveWithoutLimits.com</a>) attended Barnard College, graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of California at Berkeley in 1975 and received her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of Washington in 1981. She is a leading edge healer, writer, and teacher. In 1984, she founded the Sacred Space Institute (formerly IntiNet Resource Center and The Abundant Love Institute), a national organization dedicated to reintegrating sexuality into spirituality and health care and expanding the boundaries of the family.</p>
<p class="mainLeftIndent" style="text-align: left;">She is the author of several books. Her latests are <em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/free-reid-stuff/reid-recommended-stuff/" target="_self">Polyamory In The 21st Century</a> (2010),</em> and <em><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/wwwreidmihalk-20" target="_blank">The Seven Natural Laws of Love</a></em> (2005) and she is currently at work on a book about harmonizing feminine and masculine energies. Dr. Anapol also authored <em><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/wwwreidmihalk-20" target="_blank">Polyamory: The New Love Without Limit</a></em><a href="http://astore.amazon.com/wwwreidmihalk-20" target="_blank">s</a> (1997), and co-founded <em>Loving More Magazine </em> as well as produced the video, <em>Pelvic Heart Integration</em>.</p>
<p class="mainLeftIndent" style="text-align: left;">Dr. Anapol has worked with groups, partners, and individuals who are exploring conscious relationships and sexual healing for over two decades, leads workshops nationwide, and is an inspiring and illuminating speaker. She is available for individual coaching, phone counseling, seminars, and public speaking engagements.</p>
<p class="mainLeftIndent" style="text-align: left;">Deborah can be reached at 415.507.1739 or visit her at <a href="http://www.LoveWithoutLimits.com" target="_blank">www.LoveWithoutLimits.com</a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif"><img class="size-full wp-image-3 alignnone" title="Sex and Relationship Expert Reid Mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif" alt="Sex and Relationship Expert Reid Mihalko" width="286" height="192" /></a>ABOUT REID: </strong>Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps people create more self-esteem and greater health in their relationship and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating. He has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life &amp; Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.</p>
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		<title>The Personal Lives of Sexual Healers: Two Journeys, One Message&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 03:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Join us for an honest, vulnerable conversation in your presence&#8230;
The personal stories we will share say more than we could ever reveal in  a Power Point presentation or a lecture. Please join us for a  memorable evening as we dive deeper into transparency, self-love, spiritual accountability, and ask ourselves&#8230;

Where does the &#8220;healing&#8221; come [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Scott-Schwenk-Reid-Mihalko.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4156" title="Scott Schwenk Reid Mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Scott-Schwenk-Reid-Mihalko-300x204.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="204" /></a>Join us for an honest, vulnerable conversation in your presence&#8230;</em></h1>
<p>The personal stories we will share say more than we could ever reveal in  a Power Point presentation or a lecture. Please join us for a  memorable evening as we dive deeper into transparency, self-love, spiritual accountability, and ask ourselves&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>Where does the &#8220;healing&#8221; come from in Sexual Healing?</li>
<li>How do we find the self-love we need in ourselves to heal our own wounds when  we&#8217;re seen as &#8220;the teachers?&#8221;</li>
<li>In the helping and healing professions, what are the secrets we&#8217;re not  revealing? Where is our sexual shame? And how do they hold us back?</li>
</ul>
<p>Come eavesdrop on what promises to be a juicy conversation between Reid and Scott, two people who have nothing  to  loose by revealing their vulnerabilities.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Date: </strong>Friday, July 9th, 2010<br />
<strong>Time: </strong>7:30-9pm<br />
<strong>Location: </strong>4210 East Blvd.<br />
Los Angeles, Ca. 90066<br />
(The neighborhood is called Mar Vista)<br />
<strong>Cost: </strong>Suggested donation of $10; No one turned away for lack of funds</p></blockquote>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Scott-Schwenk-headshot-2.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4140" title="Scott Schwenk headshot 2" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Scott-Schwenk-headshot-2-300x199.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="199" /></a>ABOUT SCOTT:</strong> Scott Schwenk of<a title="Visit Scott Schwenk's  official website" href="http://trustthebreath.com/" target="_blank"> TrustTheBreath.com</a> is an extraordinary and gifted healer, teacher,  visionary, and leader focused on teaching his clients the most effective  ways to heal themselves, their lives, and others. Scott is deeply  gifted in reaching beyond the noise and chaos that his clients may be  experiencing and helping them discover and heal the core issues blocking  deeper experiences of love and happiness within, restoring flow to  every area of their lives.</p>
<p>[<a href="http://trustthebreath.com/about_scott.html" target="_blank">Read More About Scott's Journey</a>]</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-24" title="Reid Mihalko (over shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-278x300.jpg" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a>Reid Mihalko: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps  adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in  their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression  of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex  Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex  education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and  ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from   myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and   religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid   travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on   relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher   at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and   television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly   in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,   Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn   &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’  <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire, GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as  well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least  seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Battling the Eight-Armed Octopus of Jealousy the Workshop!</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jul 2010 02:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Battling the 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy! 
4-Call Podclass on Overcoming Jealousy by Understanding
and Taming Your Emotional Monsters
with Reid Mihalko
Four 90-minute Teleclasses Recordings, 
Weekly Jealousy Homework Assignments,
PLUS a One-On-One, 60-minute wrap-up coaching session
with Reid Mihalko

When it comes to jealousy, many of us are left feeling like superstitious sailors who whisper of an almighty leviathan that will inevitably [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/8armedoctopusofjealousy.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1886" title="8armedoctopusofjealousy" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/8armedoctopusofjealousy-205x300.jpg" alt="8armedoctopusofjealousy" width="205" height="300" /></a>Battling the 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy! </span></h2>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">4-Call Podclass on Overcoming Jealousy by Understanding<br />
and Taming Your Emotional Monsters<br />
with Reid Mihalko</h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Four 90-minute Teleclasses Recordings, </strong><strong><br />
Weekly Jealousy Homework Assignments,<br />
</strong><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">PLUS</span></strong><strong> a One-On-One, 60-minute wrap-up coaching session</strong><strong><br />
with Reid Mihalko</strong></p>
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<p>When it comes to jealousy, many of us are left feeling like superstitious sailors who whisper of an almighty leviathan that will inevitably come for us. And when the Green-Eyed Monster rises from our emotional depths, we usually find ourselves powerless to stop it&#8217;s many arms from tearing our relationship-world apart.  Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for his latest informative and humorous teleclass designed to help you tackle the ugly, eight-tentacled octopus of jealousy!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Begin to Beat Jealousy from the Comfort of Your Own Home or Office!</strong></h3>
<p>In this 4-call podclass program, designed as a follow-up to <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/dayofjealousy/" target="_self">Reid&#8217;s Day of Jealousy</a> event, Reid will guide you through ideas, discussions and homework assignments designed to bring you into deep connection with your emotions and give you the tools to not only mitigate your jealousy, but tame it!</p>
<p><strong>In this unique teleclass, you will learn&#8230;</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Where your jealousy comes from and why we&#8217;re using an octopus as a metaphor</li>
<li>How to distinguish Envy, Possessiveness, Anger, Depression, and Jealousy&#8217;s four other arms</li>
<li>Valuable tools for dealing with each arm, especially when it&#8217;s your partner who is being attacked!</li>
<li>Tools for mitigating your “jealousy triggers”</li>
<li>What the corresponding qualities are for each arm of jealousy and how to use them them to bring down the beast</li>
<li>To dramatically decrease your feelings of dread and anxiety around jealousy, and lessen Jealousy&#8217;s grip on those you care about</li>
<li>Ways to communicate to your loved ones how they can make your world a less jealous one</li>
<li>Boundary and negotiation skills for improving your relationships no matter what emotions you’re experiencing!</li>
</ul>
<p>If you&#8217;d given up on dealing with jealousy or resigned yourself to a life of powerlessness, please join us for what is sure to be an insightful and extremely useful journey into the uncharted seas of being empowered around Jealousy!</p>
<p>Stop fearing your emotions! Learn how to Navigate your feelings with more ease! Begin the Journey to Conquering your Jealousy Today!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;">No need to travel to a distant city for a workshop!<br />
Just Download and Listen and Learn! </span></h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><strong> </strong><span style="color: #800000;">Podclass Course Fee:</span><br />
Only $97</h3>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">REMEMBER:</span></strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"> </span><strong>Upon completing the podclasses and the course homework, you get an</strong> <strong>Hour-Long, 1-On-1, follow-up phone coaching session with Reid himself!</strong> <strong><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em>(This alone is worth several times the course fee so register asap!)</em></span></strong></p>
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<p><strong><img src="http://reidmihalko.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/mime-attachment.gif" alt="" width="286" height="192" /></strong><strong>REID MIHALKO:</strong> Reid helps people create more self-esteem and greater health in their relationship and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be or where their interests lie.</p>
<p>Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating. He has been a writer and producer on a number of film and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life &amp; Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.</p>
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		<title>June&#8217;s Reid(ing)AboutSex Is Fundamental Newsletter</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 08:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[June is late! But only because we were busy juggling all those dildos and dental dams! Plus, it was Belladonna&#8217;s fault, we swear&#8230;
June was a busy, busy month for me and ReidAboutSex&#8230; It was busy mostly because I was decompressing from a month on the road in May (see May&#8217;s newsletter), dealing with pesky website [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Here-To-Eternity-lg.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-4021" title="Here To Eternity lg" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Here-To-Eternity-lg-300x170.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="170" /></a>June is late! But only because we were busy juggling all those dildos and dental dams! Plus, it was Belladonna&#8217;s fault, we swear&#8230;</h1>
<p>June was a busy, busy month for me and ReidAboutSex&#8230; It was busy mostly because I was decompressing from a month on the road in May (see <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/mays-reidinaboutsex-is-fundamental" target="_self">May&#8217;s newsletter</a>), dealing with pesky website virus warnings (my website&#8217;s healed now! Hallelujah!), and hitting the road again.</p>
<p>June was two weeks in Oakland, then off to New York City and then Chicago, with a quick wedding stop in between in lovely Akron, Ohio (My first time!). And then -boom!- back to Oakland to finish out the last two days of the month. Whew!</p>
<p>No sooner am I&#8217;m back at Fruitopia, my East Bay event space, than it occurs to me that I might not want to unpack. Why? I leave on Monday to teach in Los Angeles for 10-days. But&#8230; But&#8230;. When I was calendaring this all out, it looked so<em> relaaaaaaxed</em>.</p>
<p>I think it&#8217;s time to call Delta or Virgin America to see if they&#8217;ll sponsor me&#8230; Hehehe&#8230; Virgin Airlines, official sponsor of ReidAboutSex? Hmmmm&#8230;. Who&#8217;s got Sir Branson on their speed-dial?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Richard_Branson_shuttle.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4027" title="Richard_Branson_shuttle" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Richard_Branson_shuttle-300x197.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="197" /></a></p>
<p>Where ever I am this month, will you&#8217;ll join me? Yes? Great! Can&#8217;t? No worries, I&#8217;ve got a few things you can check out from where ever you are&#8230; One of &#8216;em just so happens to be this newsletter!</p>
<h2>Picture of the Month: Three&#8217;s Company&#8230;</h2>
<p>I&#8217;ve included some more pics down below from my workshops, but THIS one, which is obviously NOT from my travels had to get top billing, as I&#8217;m sure you can agree&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/ThreesomeSucksLOL.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3989" title="ThreesomeSucksLOL" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/ThreesomeSucksLOL.jpg" alt="" width="359" height="480" /></a>I had to post this on account that it made me laugh so hard. Tip of the hat to my friends from the Poly-Living conference who sent it along. Apparently, this frustrated feline might have gotten more tail (sorry, couldn&#8217;t resist) if they&#8217;d listened to my <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/initiating-threesomes/" target="_self">Initiating Successful Threesomes podclass</a>, but who can say for sure, right? Join me in Seattle this October, why don&#8217;cha? I&#8217;ll be teaching my Negotiating Successful Threesomes workshop at the <a href="http://www.lovemore.com/conferences/polyliving/plwindex.php" target="_blank">Poly Living West  Cost conference</a>, happening from the 23rd to the 24th.</p>
<h4 style="text-align: center;">Got Facebook? Fan me, why don&#8217;cha!</h4>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a title="Stay in touch with me on FB!" href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/ReidAboutSex/312332332895" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3253" title="ReidAboutSex FB fanpage" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/ReidAboutSex-FB-fanpage.jpg" alt="" width="159" height="200" /></a></p>
<h2>Video of the Month: Joseph Kramer!</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s taken me forever to get around to editing some of the valuable footage I&#8217;ve got sitting in my hard drive. With apologies to the patient pioneer of Sexological Bodywork and founder of the <a href="http://tinyurl.com/JosephKramersEroticTouch" target="_blank">New School for Erotic Touch</a>, Joseph Kramer, for taking months to get this uploading to YouTube, here is Part 1 of what turned out to be an amazing interview. I was deeply honored that Joseph granted me the interview and took time out of his busy schedule to drive into San Fran in hallacious traffic it turns out.*</p>
<p>Thanks again, Joseph, for sharing so deeply your views, opinions and journey. It was a blast!</p>
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<p>(*Traffic on the Bay Bridge was unbelievable that evening and ended up  making Joseph late for the interview. As an added bonus, go to my <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/ReidAboutSex" target="_blank">ReidAboutSex   YouTube channel</a> to see the Prologue bit from Joesph&#8217;s interview,  the part I edited out. Watch it to find out how a soccer game made  Joseph late and what we did in response to that&#8230;)</p>
<h2>College Speaking Tour</h2>
<p>As many of you who&#8217;ve attended my workshops know and can see from the Joseph Kramer interview above, I&#8217;ve been dutifully  filming footage of everything I&#8217;ve been teaching for about a year now. As some of you know, footage doesn&#8217;t edit itself! And while I&#8217;ve got a   long history of working in the film and television world (actor, writer, producer), I&#8217;m not   the fastest film editor in the West&#8230; Heck, I&#8217;m not the fastest editor   anywhere in the U.S. for that matter!</p>
<p>To make matters worse,   I&#8217;ve also been gathering and digitizing lots of old footage of me  teaching and being interviewed. I even have a bunch of my old Soap Opera  acting gigs and old commercials on disc now (I was an <a title="See Reid's acting credits... " href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0586201/" target="_blank">actor, film producer and fight choreographer</a> prior to launching my career as a sex and relationship expert, if you didn&#8217;t know).</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the headshot that landed me a McDonalds commercial where I played a&#8230; Wait for it&#8230; Wait&#8230; You guessed it: a hockey player! Just wait  till I show you my ESPN2 commercial with me as a Swedish lumberjack! Flannel never looked so sexy&#8230;</p>
<dl id="attachment_3992" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/REiD-Hockey-Print_3.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3992" title="REiD Hockey Print_3" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/REiD-Hockey-Print_3-300x240.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="240" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Thanks Ron Rinaldi at www.RonRinaldi.com for the headshot!</dd></dl>
<p>As my friend and old bartending/waitering buddy, Hollywood actor  Billy   Crudup (who&#8217;s also the voice for MasterCard in those commercials)   would  say, &#8220;Priceless!&#8221;</p>
<p>Short story long, I hope to have a lot of fun video stuff available  for you in the coming months, including some<em> really</em> fun and  insightful clips from some past in-store teaching gigs and college gigs.  I know it&#8217;s Summer now and school&#8217;s out, but if you want to book me to  come to speak at your College or University this September and October,  I&#8217;m beginning to book my Fall Tour now, so email me at Reid (at)  ReidAboutSex.com.</p>
<p>Speaking of college tours, hopefully, I&#8217;ll be able to include your  school in something really BIG and exciting that I&#8217;ve been plotting now  for several months&#8230; Nothing is certain yet, but, if I can manage to  pull it off, it&#8217;s going to be awesomely fun and make for some great  video footage, and maybe bring me to your Campus. Keep your fingers  crossed and wish me luck!</p>
<dl id="attachment_3906" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Megan-College.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3906" title="Megan College" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Megan-College-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Rhode Island Sexpert Megan Andeloux of OhMegan.com doin&#39; what she does best: Talkin&#39; to students &#39;bout sex...</dd></dl>
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<dl id="attachment_4011" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/gmcssexpoday2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4011" title="green mt college sexpo day group photo" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/gmcssexpoday2-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Reid with a group of delighted (and silly) college students after presenting one of his first ever &quot;Stand-Up Sex Ed&quot; comedy talks, which was to a packed room of over 200 students!</dd></dl>
<p>And for the sex educators among you who&#8217;re interested in booking college teaching/speaking gigs, if you&#8217;re in the East Bay this July 21st, come spend the day with one of the busiest sexperts in the biz, Megan Andeloux and yours truly as we share our gig-landing secrets in <a title="Get Paid to Teach Sex Ed!" href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/booking-u-how-to-book-paid-college-and-in-store-teaching-gigs-like-reid-mihalko-and-megan-andeloux/" target="_self"><strong>Booking U.: <em>How To Book Paid, College and In-Store Sex Ed Teaching Gigs</em></strong></a><em>.</em></p>
<h2>Month in Review, in Pics&#8230;</h2>
<p>It&#8217;s been a busy month on the road&#8230; And I&#8217;ve got the pix to prove it! <img src='http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<dl id="attachment_4018" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Diana-Adams-roof.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4018" title="Diana Adam's roof" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Diana-Adams-roof-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Whoa! Look at that Brooklyn, NY, sunset!... Hey! Who put that cool refreshing beverage in my hand? I&#39;m supposed to be workin&#39;!</dd></dl>
<p>I swear I was busting my hump the four days I was in the Big Apple; however, my trip home to New York City was nearly entirely filled with <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/coaching-mentoring/" target="_self">Relationship Coaching and Sex Ed Mentoring Clients</a>. The one night I did have a few free hours, I stole away to Brooklyn to a BBQ hosted by the amazingly smart (and cute) sexual civil rights lawyer Diana Adams, Esq., who collaborated with me on the <a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/women-who-give-too-much-teleseries/" target="_self">Women Who Give Too Much teleclass series</a>.</p>
<p>After a quick skip to Akron, Ohio, for a wedding, it was back on a plane to the Windy City for&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/foundations-of-facilitation-training-chicago-2010/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3461" title="reid-takes-chicago2" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/reid-takes-chicago21-300x175.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="175" /></a>And so it begins&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">It was my first trip to Chicago as a sex and relationship educator and, truth be told, I was a tad nervous&#8230;</p>
<dl id="attachment_3999" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pleasure-Chest-CHI-Reid.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3999" title="Pleasure Chest CHI Reid" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pleasure-Chest-CHI-Reid-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">At Chicago&#39;s The Pleasure Chest letting off a little nervous energy before my first Chicago workshop EVER: Dildos, Dental Dams and Deep Throating!</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_3998" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-20-28.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-3998" title="DildosDentalDamsCHI 0 00 20-28" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-20-28-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Dildos, Dental Dams, and Deep Throating has begun... As evidenced by the... proliferation of... Dildos! Double fisting, you say?</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4000" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-31-08.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4000" title="DildosDentalDamsCHI 0 00 31-08" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-31-08-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">My patented Neo from The Matrix&#39;s &quot;over the shoulder&quot; move got a good laugh from the workshop participants... &quot;Are you saying I can dodge dildos?&quot; &quot;No, Neo. I&#39;m saying one day, you won&#39;t have to!&quot;</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4003" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-14-17.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4003" title="DildosDentalDamsCHI 0 00 14-17" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-14-17-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Demonstrating how to properly place a dental dam on a store display (displaying a strap-on harness, btw) in my Dildos, Dental Dams and Deep Throating workshop...</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4004" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-10-01.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4004" title="DildosDentalDamsCHI 0 00 10-01" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-10-01-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Now it&#39;s a mask!... Demonstrating how to properly use a dental dam to the audinece at Chicago&#39;s The Pleasure Chest during Dildos, Dental Dams and Deep Throating!</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4005" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-43-02.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4005" title="DildosDentalDamsCHI 0 00 43-02" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DildosDentalDamsCHI-0-00-43-02-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Under NO circumstances should you try to deep throat THIS!... Showing off one of my favorite toys to NOT deep throat, NJoy&#39;s ever awesome &quot;The Eleven!&quot;</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4001" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pleasure-Chest-CHI-sign.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4001" title="Pleasure Chest CHI sign" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pleasure-Chest-CHI-sign-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Day-2: Anal Pleasure for Beginners. Time to help folks put the &quot;Us&quot; in anus...  </dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4002" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/BackdoorLuvinCHI-0-01-14-13.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4002" title="BackdoorLuvin'CHI  0 01 14-13" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/BackdoorLuvinCHI-0-01-14-13-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Describing how you can access the G-spot and P-Spot (the prostate) via anal pleasuring... Yes, that&#39;s an official latex &quot;Belladonna Extreme Pussy and Ass&quot; in my lap. How&#39;d THAT get there?!?</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4007" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/BackDoorLuvin101-0-02-03-14.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4007" title="BackDoorLuvin'101 0 02 03-14" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/BackDoorLuvin101-0-02-03-14-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">I&#39;d always dreamnt of working with Belladonna... I should have been more specific. (The Secret DVD warned me this might happen.)</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4008" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/BackdoorLuvinCHI-0-01-46-28.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4008" title="BackdoorLuvin'CHI  0 01 46-28" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/BackdoorLuvinCHI-0-01-46-28-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Demonstraing a trick Nina Hartley likes to teach called the &quot;door bell,&quot; which can create lots of exciting sensations without ever penetrating the anus... (Belladonna was kind enough to tirelessly hold her butt cheeks apart for me during the entire workshop!) </dd></dl>
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<dl id="attachment_4016" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pleasure-Chest-CHI-staff.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4016" title="Pleasure Chest CHI staff" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Pleasure-Chest-CHI-staff-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">I love my job... Deep, hearthfelt thanks to the amazingly knowledgable staff at Chicago&#39;s The Pleasure Chest! See you in November!</dd></dl>
<p>I was very pleased with how well The Pleasure Chest gigs went. Thursday in Chicago was devoted to Relationship Coaching and Sex Ed Mentoring (and catching up on emails). Friday was devoted to prepping for the two and a half day long <a href="http://foundationsoffacilitation.org/" target="_blank">Foundations of Facilitation Weekend Training Intensive</a>, which got kicked off by an awesome, 22-person Chicago <a href="http://CUDDLEPARTY.COM" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>! White Sox and Cubs fans cuddling together! Unbelievable!</p>
<dl id="attachment_4009" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/FOFCHI2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4009" title="FOFCHI2" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/FOFCHI2-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Potential Cuddle Party Facilitators and workshop leaders at Chicago&#39;s Foundation of Facilitation weekend intensive. After nearly 14 hours of intense but fun training (with several more hours to go), it&#39;s time to let off some steam by applying serious facilitator skills sets to none other than... a silly game of Itsy Bitsy Spider!</dd></dl>
<dl id="attachment_4010" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/FoFCHI1.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4010" title="FoFCHI1" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/FoFCHI1-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">All work and no play... LET&#39;S EAT! Lunch time at Foundations of Facilitation. (Many thanks to Roman, our chef, who prepared some of the yummiest FoF Training grub yet!)</dd></dl>
<p>The next upcoming <a href="http://foundationsoffacilitation.org/" target="_blank">Foundations of Facilitation Weekend Intensives</a> in are in Toronto, Canada, and Washington, D.C. in September and October. Wanna come?</p>
<p>I flew back to Oakland, CA, and promptly slept twelve hours! Woke up at 6am, went for a run, and been at my desk ever since, making phone calls, updating the website, and cranking out the June newsletter before it officially turns into July&#8230;</p>
<p>And what a busy, event-full July it&#8217;s going to be&#8230; Better make myself some more coffee!!! Shall I pour you a cup?</p>
<dl id="attachment_4019" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Candid-Reid-6312010.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4019" title="Candid Reid 6312010" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/Candid-Reid-6312010-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Back at my desk working at the &#39;puter... I can haz coffee and Bailey&#39;s, plz?</dd></dl>
<h1>Events In July&#8230;</h1>
<p>Juuuuuust in case you&#8217;re in the neighborhood&#8230;</p>
<h4><em>JOIN REID IN LOS ANGELES and SANTA MONICA&#8230;</em></h4>
<p><strong>July 7th: </strong><em>Join Reid at LA&#8217;s The Pleasure Chest for an outrageiously funny night of  eXXXtreem sex education&#8230;</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/dildos-dental-dams-and-deep-throating-gobbles-la-july-7th"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3275" title="DildosDentalDamsDeepThroatR" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/DildosDentalDamsDeepThroatR-229x300.jpg" alt="" width="229" height="300" /></a><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/dildos-dental-dams-and-deep-throating-gobbles-la-july-7th" target="_self">Dildos, Dental Dams and Deep Throating!</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>July 10-11th: </strong><em>Join Reid in Santa Monica for two days of amazing exploration into the  world of energetic sex!</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/hands-on-energetic-sex-2-day-intensive-returns-to-santa-monica-july-10-11th/" target="_self"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2806" title="RAINBOW CHAKRAS" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/RAINBOW-CHAKRAS-241x300.jpg" alt="" width="241" height="300" /></a><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/hands-on-energetic-sex-2-day-intensive-returns-to-santa-monica-july-10-11th/" target="_self">Energetic Sex 2-Day Intensive</a></strong></p>
<dl id="attachment_2392" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/hands-on-energetic-sex-2-day-intensive-returns-to-santa-monica-july-10-11th/" target="_self"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2392" title="hands-on-energetic-sex-series-with-reid-mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energetic-sex-series-300x72.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="72" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Reid demonstrates an energetic orgasm and what he calls &quot;Tantric Twitchies&quot; (Kriyas) for the audience with the generous help of Amber Seitz at a workshop in Oakland</dd></dl>
<h4 style="text-align: left;"><em>JOIN REID IN SAN FRAN/OAKLAND&#8230;</em></h4>
<p><strong>July 21st: </strong><em>Join two of the busiest sexperts in da&#8217; bid&#8217;ness as they walk you  through what you need to do to get paid to teach across the country!</em></p>
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<dt class="wp-caption-dt"><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/booking-u-how-to-book-paid-college-and-in-store-teaching-gigs-like-reid-mihalko-and-megan-andeloux/" target="_self"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2972" title="SexEdShowdownThreesomeAwkward" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Untitled-5-0-05-45-30-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></dt>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/booking-u-how-to-book-paid-college-and-in-store-teaching-gigs-like-reid-mihalko-and-megan-andeloux/" target="_self"><strong> Booking U.: How To Book Paid, Sex Ed Teaching/Speaking Gigs at Colleges  and Stores!</strong></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>July 31st: </strong><em>Join sexperts Reid Mihalko and Sheri Winston for an afternoon of  experiential, one-on-one and group learning designed to make Energetic  Sex simple and attainable, and fun!</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/breath-gasm-and-energetic-sex-revealed-with-reid-mihalko-and-sheri-winston/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3920" title="orgasm flowers" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/orgasm-flowers-300x213.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="213" /></a></strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/breath-gasm-and-energetic-sex-revealed-with-reid-mihalko-and-sheri-winston/" target="_self"><strong>Breath-gasms and Energetic Sex Revealed! with Sheri Winston and Reid Mihalko</strong></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>July 31st: </strong><em>Watch as two sexperts go pelvis-to-pelvis&#8230; Reid Mihalko Vs. Nurse-midwife and Gynecology Nurse-practitioner-turned-Workshop Guru Sheri Winston in an all-new&#8230;</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/iron-slut-sex-educator-showdown-goes-pelvis-to-pelvis-reid-mihalko-vs-sheri-winston/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3953" title="Sheri Winston pelvis" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Sheri-Winston-pelvis-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/iron-slut-sex-educator-showdown-goes-pelvis-to-pelvis-reid-mihalko-vs-sheri-winston/" target="_self"> Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown!</a></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Well, I <em>almost </em>got the June newsletter out while it was June, but no worries. What&#8217;s a few hours between friends, right?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">No matter what month it is, like I&#8217;m fond of thinking Gandhi said, <em>&#8220;Be the change you want to see in the bedroom!&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Hope yours was a fulfilling June, now go and have an amazingly explosive July. And while I&#8217;m at it: Happy birthday, America!</p>
<p>Till next month, yours in savvy, accessible and sexy sex ed&#8230;<br />
REiD</p>
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Watch  and Learn as Real Sex  Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best  Bedroom Moves&#8230;

What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can   actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head?
Let&#8217;s face it, sex is one of the few things [...]]]></description>
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<h1><strong><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Sheri-Winston-pelvis.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3953" title="Sheri Winston pelvis" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Sheri-Winston-pelvis-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>Watch  and Learn as Real Sex  Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best  Bedroom Moves&#8230;</em></strong></h1>
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<p style="text-align: left;">What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can   actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head?</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Let&#8217;s face it, sex is one of the few things we&#8217;re not allowed to learn   by watching others. You go to a fancy dinner. You don&#8217;t know which  spoon  to use. You watch to see what spoon everyone else uses&#8230; But  don&#8217;t  know what to do how in the bedroom, or want to add a few tricks  to your  repertoire? No such luck!</p>
<div style="text-align: left;"><em>Until now&#8230;</em></div>
<h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Tonight&#8217;s   Iron Slut Sex Educators:<br />
Reid Mihalko<br />
VS.<br />
</strong>Nurse-midwife and Gynecology Nurse-practitioner-turned-Workshop Guru&#8230;<br />
<strong>Sheri Winston!</strong></h2>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo.jpg"><img class="aligncenter" title="Iron Slut Sex  Educator Showdown" src="../wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo-300x170.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="170" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko and celebrate author Sheri Winston, Wholistic Sexuality Teacher and Counselor, Founder &amp; Executive   Director of the <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/" target="_blank">Center  for the  Intimate Arts</a>, and watch as they go hand-to-hand sharing their  personal stories and bed room  secrets!</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>DATE: Saturday, July 31st, 2010<br />
TIME: 7-9:30pm<br />
LOCATION: Fruitopia event space</strong><br />
1080 23rd Ave. Ste. 110, Oakland CA 94606<br />
<strong>COST: $30 day-of at the door; $25 advanced, on-line tickets and $20 for Threesomes and Moresomes!</strong></p></blockquote>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://ironslutwithreidandsheriwinston.eventbrite.com" target="_blank"><img title="sign_me_up_button" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sign_me_up.gif" alt="sign_me_up_button" width="141" height="28" /></a></p>
<div>In this entertaining, informational, guaranteed-to-be-funny and   friendly &#8220;competitive&#8221; throwdown, we&#8217;ll let the audience watch, take   notes, ask questions, and, when the dust finally settles, meet these   extraordinary educators and mingle with like-minded people.</div>
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<h4 style="text-align: center;"><em>Show up to this Rated-R and NC-17 workshop designed to empower adults   around their sex lives and get folks smiling!</em></h4>
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<p><em> </em><strong>Show up to this fun-filled, 2-and-a half hour workshop and   learn:</strong></p>
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<ul>
<li>What sex educators do under the covers and how</li>
<li>Their best tips and tricks (and probably not the kind you read about   in Cosmo)</li>
<li>Their favorite, black belt sexy-sexy time moves!</li>
<li>And much, much more&#8230;</li>
</ul>
</div>
<p>We can&#8217;t  promise you badly dubbed voice-overs or high-jinx dramma  like  television&#8217;s Iron Chef, but we can promise you some down-to-earth,   applicable sex and relationship education. The only theme ingredient  is  education!</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">Iron   Slut is a wealth of sex geekery and informative experience that you   don&#8217;t want to miss.</h2>
<div>If you were a big fan of &#8220;I&#8217;ll show you mine, if you show me yours&#8221;   as a kid, or you always wished there was a reality show called   &#8220;Shagging With the Stars,&#8221; then this workshop might be for you. Tell   your friends. Bring a date. Bring a note book, too, while you&#8217;re at it!</div>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em>JOIN REID AND SHERI BEFORE IRON SLUT&#8230; </em></span></h3>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/breath-gasm-and-energetic-sex-revealed-with-reid-mihalko-and-sheri-winston" target="_self">Breath-Gasm and Energetic Sex Revealed!</a> </strong>4-hours of in-depth exploration and demonstration with Reid and Sheri into the orgasmic world of subtle, mind-blowing orgasmic sex!</p>
<dl id="attachment_2392" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energetic-sex-series.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2392" title="hands-on-energetic-sex-series-with-reid-mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energetic-sex-series-1024x247.jpg" alt="" width="1024" height="247" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Before Saturday night&#39;s Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown, join Reid and Sheri for an entire afternoon and learn the secrets of Breath-gasms and Energetic Sex! </dd></dl></blockquote>
<div style="text-align: center;"><strong>Because  of Sex Educator Showdown&#8217;s sometimes explicit and frank nature and live  demonstrations,  no one under 18 admitted. Please try to arrive on time.  And, as with all  of Reid&#8217;s workshops, you can always leave early.</strong></div>
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<p><em><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Sheri-Winston-with-Vulva.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3916" title="Sheri Winston with Vulva" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Sheri-Winston-with-Vulva-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>SHERI WINSTON: </strong></em>Sheri  Winston  CNM, RN, BSN, LMT, is a medical professional, sexuality  educator and  author who is on a mission to transform our culture&#8217;s  attitudes about  sex.</p>
<p>Wholistic Sexuality Teacher and Counselor, Founder &amp; Executive   Director of the <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/" target="_blank">Center for the   Intimate Arts</a>, Sheri&#8217;s journey began when she became a licensed   massage therapist in 1980. She soon discovered that she felt called to   become a midwife and began assisting and apprenticing at home births.   That was rapidly followed by becoming a childbirth educator and doula   (someone who provides professional labor support). In order to become a   legal midwife, she attended nursing school and graduated valedictorian,   summa cum laude, receiving her BSN (Bachelor&#8217;s degree in Science of   Nursing) and becoming a RN (registered nurse). Finally, she attended   midwifery school for her graduate education, becoming a certified   nurse-midwife and gynecology nurse-practitioner.</p>
<p>Sheri has always been a teacher. During her first two decades of   clinical practice, Sheri Winston also taught Childbirth Education &amp; <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/wholistic-sexuality-class-faq/" target="_blank">WomanCraft</a>, classes on pregnancy, birth,   breastfeeding and women&#8217;s health issues.* A decade ago, in response to a   growing awareness of the need for accurate, comprehensive, accessible   and empowering information about sex, she expanded into sexuality   education and began development of what has become her major work, the <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/wholistic-sexuality-curriculum/" target="_blank">Wholistic Sexuality Curriculum</a>.</p>
<p>Sheri is now retired from clinical practice to focus full time on   teaching Workshops and <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/counseling-consultations/" target="_blank">Counseling</a> through the Center for the Intimate Arts.   She also lectures and makes appearances around the country to talk   about sex and<a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/about-wholistic-sexuality/" target="_blank"> Wholistic Sexuality</a>. Sheri believes her twenty   years in women&#8217;s health care have given her an excellent foundation for   sexuality education and counseling, and formed her unique approach.   She  has also studied a wide variety of holistic healing modalities   including integral health, herbalism, energy healing, psychological and   emotional healing, women&#8217;s health, and many hands-on healing  techniques.</p>
<p>She feels that life is for learning and believes that her current   calling is to help transform our culture into one that celebrates sex as   our vital life force, as a source of ecstasy, and as the glue and   lubricant of delicious intimate relationships. She invites you to make   your own journey to empowering yourself with information about your   body, your potential and about Wholistic Sexuality!</p>
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-24" title="Reid Mihalko (over shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>Reid Mihalko: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps  adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in  their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression  of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex  Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex  education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and  ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from   myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and   religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid   travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on   relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher   at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and   television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly   in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,   Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn   &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’  <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire, GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as  well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least  seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Breath-gasms and Energetic Sex Revealed with Reid Mihalko and Sheri Winston!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 20:50:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[4-hours of in depth, demystifying teachings revealing the secrets and nuances of Kundalini-opening sex!

Curious about how yoga, breathwork, Tantra, your anatomy and your orgasm all fit together?
Looking to take your lovemaking to higher levels of arousal and ecstasy?
Curious if it&#8217;s possible to orgasm just by breathing???
Want to knock your lovers&#8217; socks not just off, but [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/orgasm-flowers.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3920" title="orgasm flowers" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/orgasm-flowers-300x213.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="213" /></a>4-hours of in depth, demystifying teachings revealing the secrets and nuances of Kundalini-opening sex!</em></h1>
<ul>
<li>Curious about how yoga, breathwork, Tantra, your anatomy and your orgasm all fit together?</li>
<li>Looking to take your lovemaking to higher levels of arousal and ecstasy?</li>
<li>Curious if it&#8217;s possible to orgasm <em>just by breathing???</em></li>
<li>Want to knock your lovers&#8217; socks not just off, <span style="text-decoration: underline;">but clear across the room</span>?</li>
</ul>
<p>Join sexperts Reid Mihalko and Sheri Winston for an afternoon of experiential, one-on-one and group learning designed to make Energetic Sex simple and attainable, and fun!</p>
<p>Think it&#8217;s impossible to orgasm just by breathing? Think again! Let Reid and Sheri show you what&#8217;s possible in the bedroom and beyond&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>In this 4-hour, R-rated class with fully-clothed exercises and fully-clothed demonstrations, you will learn:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>The basics anatomy of human arousal, what Energetic Sex is, and how it works.</li>
<li>How to use breathing to heighten your pleasure and orgasmic response, and even trigger orgasms.</li>
<li>Exercises and practices you can take home and use today!</li>
<li>Simple, pragmatic, non-&#8221;woo-woo&#8221; approaches to incorporating Energetic Sex and Breath-gasms into your bedroom activities tonight.</li>
<li>Ways Energetic Sex and Breath-gasms can be applied to sexual dysfunctions and challenges in the bedroom.</li>
</ul>
<dl id="attachment_2392" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energetic-sex-series.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-2392" title="hands-on-energetic-sex-series-with-reid-mihalko" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/energetic-sex-series-1024x247.jpg" alt="" width="1024" height="247" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Reid demonstrates an energetic orgasm and what he calls &quot;Tantric Twitchies&quot; (Kriyas) for the audience with the generous help of Amber Seitz at a workshop in Oakland</dd></dl>
<blockquote><p><strong>Date: </strong>Saturday, July 31st<br />
<strong>Time: </strong>Noon-4pm<br />
<strong>Location: </strong>Fruitopia event space<br />
1080 23rd Ave, Ste. 110, Oakland 94606<br />
<strong>Cost: </strong>$99 per person, $158 for two (<span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>Save 20%!</strong></em></span>)</p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>1-Person for the Day</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Buy 2 tickets and SAVE 20%!</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>This workshop is Rated-R. No nudity. No explicit sexual contact. Adult language, frank content. Reid&#8217;s no questions asked, money-back guarantee if you&#8217;re not fully satisfied.</strong></em></span></p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em>HAVEN&#8217;T HAD YOUR FILL YET? </em></span></h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em>DON&#8217;T MOVE!!! </em></span></h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em>Join Reid and Sheri, Saturday evening, in the same location for: </em></span></h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #800000;"><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/iron-slut-sex-educator-showdown-goes-pelvis-to-pelvis-reid-mihalko-vs-sheri-winston" target="_self">IRON SLUT SEX EDUCATOR SHOWDOWN!</a>&#8230; </em></span></h3>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/iron-slut-sex-educator-showdown-goes-pelvis-to-pelvis-reid-mihalko-vs-sheri-winston"></a><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/iron-slut-sex-educator-showdown-goes-pelvis-to-pelvis-reid-mihalko-vs-sheri-winston/" target="_self"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2157" title="Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/iron-slut-logo-300x170.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="170" /></a></strong></p>
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<p><em><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Sheri-Winston-with-Vulva.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3916" title="Sheri Winston with Vulva" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Sheri-Winston-with-Vulva-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>ABOUT SHERI: </strong></em>Sheri Winston CNM, RN, BSN, LMT, is a medical professional, sexuality educator and author who is on a mission to transform our culture&#8217;s attitudes about sex.</p>
<p>Wholistic Sexuality Teacher and Counselor, Founder &amp; Executive Director of the <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/" target="_blank">Center for the Intimate Arts</a>, Sheri&#8217;s journey began when she became a licensed massage therapist in 1980. She soon discovered that she felt called to become a midwife and began assisting and apprenticing at home births. That was rapidly followed by becoming a childbirth educator and doula (someone who provides professional labor support). In order to become a legal midwife, she attended nursing school and graduated valedictorian, summa cum laude, receiving her BSN (Bachelor&#8217;s degree in Science of Nursing) and becoming a RN (registered nurse). Finally, she attended midwifery school for her graduate education, becoming a certified nurse-midwife and gynecology nurse-practitioner.</p>
<p>Sheri has always been a teacher. During her first two decades of clinical practice, Sheri Winston also taught Childbirth Education &amp; <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/wholistic-sexuality-class-faq/" target="_blank">WomanCraft</a>, classes on pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding and women&#8217;s health issues.* A decade ago, in response to a growing awareness of the need for accurate, comprehensive, accessible and empowering information about sex, she expanded into sexuality education and began development of what has become her major work, the <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/wholistic-sexuality-curriculum/" target="_blank">Wholistic Sexuality Curriculum</a>.</p>
<p>Sheri is now retired from clinical practice to focus full time on teaching Workshops and <a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/counseling-consultations/" target="_blank">Counseling</a> through the Center for the Intimate Arts. She also lectures and makes appearances around the country to talk about sex and<a href="http://intimateartscenter.com/about-wholistic-sexuality/" target="_blank"> Wholistic Sexuality</a>. Sheri believes her twenty years in women&#8217;s health care have given her an excellent foundation for sexuality education and counseling, and formed her unique approach.  She has also studied a wide variety of holistic healing modalities including integral health, herbalism, energy healing, psychological and emotional healing, women&#8217;s health, and many hands-on healing techniques.</p>
<p>She feels that life is for learning and believes that her current calling is to help transform our culture into one that celebrates sex as our vital life force, as a source of ecstasy, and as the glue and lubricant of delicious intimate relationships. She invites you to make your own journey to empowering yourself with information about your body, your potential and about Wholistic Sexuality!</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img title="Reid Mihalko (over  shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-278x300.jpg" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a>Reid Mihalko: </strong>Reid Mihalko of   www.ReidAboutSex.com helps  adults create more self-esteem,   self-confidence and greater health in  their relationships and sex   lives, no matter what their self-expression  of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex   Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex   education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and   ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from    myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and    religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid    travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating  on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence  and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on    relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher    at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and    television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly    in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,    Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn    &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’   <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire,  GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as   well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least   seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Booking U: How to book paid, college and in-store sex ed teaching gigs like Reid Mihalko and Megan Andeloux</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 13:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Get schooled in how to get schools with two of the busiest sexperts in the biz&#8217;ness!

Are you a sex educator who&#8217;s interested in bringing your offerings to  colleges and universities?
Feeling the recession crunch in your self-promoted workshops and events and wishing someone would pay you to just show up and teach?
Passionate about reaching college-aged [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Untitled-7-0-02-43-05.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2987" title="SexEdShowdownBrownMeaganSpeculum" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Untitled-7-0-02-43-05-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a>Get schooled in how to get schools with two of the busiest sexperts in the biz&#8217;ness!</em></h1>
<ul>
<li>Are you a sex educator who&#8217;s interested in bringing your offerings to  colleges and universities?</li>
<li>Feeling the recession crunch in your self-promoted workshops and events and wishing someone would pay you to just show up and teach?</li>
<li>Passionate about reaching college-aged adults but don&#8217;t know how?</li>
<li>Dreaming of traveling around the country getting paid to do what you do best?</li>
<li>Wish you could book paid speaking gigs in your area of expertise but not sure who to contact or where to start?</li>
<li>Feeling envious of all the other workshop leaders and authors who&#8217;re traveling around the country getting paid to teach?</li>
</ul>
<p>If you&#8217;re a yes to any of the above questions, this one day workshop is for you! Part brain-dump, part brainstorming session, all fun and information: Reid and Megan are going to download and share everything they know about booking paying gigs at colleges, organizations and stores!</p>
<p>Join sex and relationship educators (and gig booking experts) Reid Mihalko and Megan Andeloux (who&#8217;ve booked hundreds of paid gigs combined) for 3-hours focusing on how you can take your workshops, teaching and public speaking to the next level: Getting schools and organizations to pay you to show up and speak to rooms they fill for you!</p>
<p>Face it, it&#8217;s hard organizing, promoting, hosting and running your own events. Why not get organizations to pay you to show up and share what you&#8217;re passionate about!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/PleasureChestLAtantra08-16.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3623" title="PleasureChestLAtantra08-16" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/PleasureChestLAtantra08-16-300x168.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="168" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Megan-College.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3906" title="Megan College" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Megan-College-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p><strong>In this 3-hour, evening workshop (with after-party), Reid and Megan will cover:</strong></p>
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<li>How teaching and speaking at schools, organizations and stores works and why you should be considering doing it.</li>
<li>What to expect, what to charge, and what not to do.</li>
<li>Who to speak to, how to find them, and what to say to book a paid gig.</li>
<li>What you should have on your website to book a gig and why.</li>
<li>Things you can do to figure out if you&#8217;re ready to bring your work to colleges and universities.</li>
<li>Some of Reid and Megan&#8217;s &#8220;Best of&#8221; and &#8220;Worst of&#8221; stories from teaching gigs, so you don&#8217;t have to reinvent the wheel!</li>
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<p>During this workshop Reid and Megan will also mentor and lead you through brainstorming what you can do next to begin or upgrade the paid teaching gig part of your business!</p>
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<dl id="attachment_4011" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 485px"><dt><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/gmcssexpoday2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-4011" title="green mt college sexpo day group photo" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/gmcssexpoday2-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></dt><dd class="wp-caption-text">Reid and a group of delighted college students after presenting one of his first ever &quot;Stand-Up Sex Ed&quot; comedy talks, which was to a packed room of over 200 students!</dd></dl>
<blockquote><p><strong>Date:</strong> July 21st<br />
<strong>Time:</strong> 7-10pm with wrap party from 10-Midnite<br />
<strong>Where:</strong> Reid&#8217;s workshop space in Oakland &#8211; 1080 23rd Ave, Ste. 110, Oakland 94606<br />
<strong>Cost: Online Pre-pay: $99 per person, 2 for $89 each, 3somes and moresomes for $79; Day-off price: $120 per person</strong> <strong>at the Door</strong><br />
Wrap-Party from 10-Midnite. Free!</p></blockquote>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>1-Person &#8211; $99 online, Early-Bird discount!<br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>2-People &#8211; $89 Each! (Online price only)<br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>3-people &#8211; $79 Each! (Online price only)<br />
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.webmarketingmagic.com/SecureCart/SecureCart.aspx?mid=6014A2D2-26B3-435B-A837-21461BB3DA3F&amp;pid=ac107e5f36c241598eb26de01ffb30af" target="_self"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-324" title="register_with_reid_button" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/sign_me_up.gif" alt="" width="141" height="28" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>Groups larger than 3, contact Reid at reid (at) reidaboutsex.com</em></strong><br />
<strong><em>Take advantage of online, Early-Bird registration! At the door price day of event: $120<br />
</em></strong></p>
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<p><em><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Can&#8217;t make the workshop, but you&#8217;re a sex educator, workshop leader, teacher or some other sex-positive professional? </strong></span></em>Come at 10pm for our workshop wrap-party and sex-positive community gathering. BYOB and snacks to share, and it&#8217;s free!</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/meganandelloux.jpg"><img title="meganandelloux" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/meganandelloux-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>Megan Andelloux: </strong>Megan  Andelloux is a nationally certified sexuality educator through <a href="http://www.aasect.org/" target="_blank">The American Association of Sexuality Educators,  Counselors and Therapists</a> and is a board certified sexologist  through <a href="http://www.americancollegeofsexologists.org/" target="_blank">The  American College of Sexologists</a>. She is the founder and director of<a href="http://thecsph.org/" target="_blank"> The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health</a>, a  sexuality resource center located in Pawtucket, RI.</p>
<p>Ms. Andelloux has worked full-time in the field of Sexual Education  for more than 12 years.  She is an Instructor of Obstetrics and  Gynecology at Boston University School of Medicine and lectures  internationally at colleges, universities, medical schools, and  sexuality institutions on issues surrounding sexual pleasure, sexual  health, politics, and erotic justice. She developed the Gynecological  Training Program for Boston University School of Medicine, and in  addition works as a Gynecological Teaching Associate at medical  institutions on the East coast.</p>
<p>Ms. Andelloux is a sought after media contributor for sexuality  related issues in print, online, television and documentaries.  She is a  regular contributor at www.carnalnation.com. and www.sexualhealth.com  and is also an author in the book, <em>We Got Issues</em>, a Feminist  Response to Cultural Attitudes On Feminism.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder.jpg"><img title="Reid Mihalko (over  shoulder shot)" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/06/reidovershoulder-278x300.jpg" alt="" width="278" height="300" /></a>Reid Mihalko: </strong>Reid Mihalko of  www.ReidAboutSex.com helps  adults create more self-esteem,  self-confidence and greater health in  their relationships and sex  lives, no matter what their self-expression  of those happen to be.</p>
<p>From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (<a href="http://cuddleparty.com/" target="_blank">Cuddle Party</a>, <a href="http://speed-flirting.com/" target="_blank">Speed-Flirting</a>) to the rated-R (<a href="../workshops/workshops/" target="_self">Iron  Slut Sex  Educator Showdown</a>) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, <a href="../show-n-tell-sex-ed/" target="_self">Show-N-Tell  sex  education</a> workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes,  and  ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from   myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and   religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid   travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on   fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and   health adults in and out of the bedroom.</p>
<p>Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on   relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher   at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.</p>
<p>Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and   television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly   in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show <em>Montel,   Fox News</em>, VH1’s <em>Scott Baio is 45 and Single,</em> Showtime’s <em>Penn   &amp; Teller’s Bulls**t!</em>, Canada’s <em>The Sex Files </em>and<em> SexTV</em>, and the short-lived <em>Life &amp; Style</em>, on NPR,  Sirius’  <em>Maxim Radio</em> and <em>Cosmo Radio</em>, and in <em>Marie  Claire, GQ,  Details, People, Newsweek</em> and <em>The National Enquirer</em>,  as  well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least  seven  languages.</p>
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		<title>Reid To Play San Diego&#8217;s Tantra-Palooza Festival, Oct 10th!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[10 Tantra Teachers Over 4 Days on 11-Acres In the Sunshine and Under the Stars&#8230; 
WHO? Teachers include Reid Mihalko, David Cates, Francoise, Jaiya ma, Katie Weatherup, Kirin Khalsa, Liquid Bells, Robert Silber, Shawn Roop and Kamala Devi. The retreat is limieted to 64 sexy spiritis from around the country.
WHAT? In 8-8-08 Kamala Devi offered [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1><em><a href="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/New-10-10-10-palooza-postcard1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-3814" title="New 10 10 10 palooza postcard" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/New-10-10-10-palooza-postcard1-300x232.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="232" /></a>10 Tantra Teachers Over 4 Days on 11-Acres In the Sunshine and Under the Stars&#8230; </em></h1>
<p><em><strong>WHO? </strong></em>Teachers include Reid Mihalko, David Cates, Francoise, Jaiya ma, Katie Weatherup, Kirin Khalsa, Liquid Bells, Robert Silber, Shawn Roop and Kamala Devi. The retreat is limieted to 64 sexy spiritis from around the country.</p>
<p><em><strong>WHAT? </strong></em>In 8-8-08 Kamala Devi offered an initiation. In 9-9-09 there was an activation. And THIS year we delve into the realm of sexual shamanism.</p>
<p><em><strong>WHEN?</strong></em> Friday, Oct. 8th thru Monday, Oct. 11th (Columbus Day). Friday night starts with a sensual puja @ 7p and continues with classses, parties, and performances art until 4pm, Monday.</p>
<p><em><strong>WHERE? </strong></em>A garden paradise in the hills of Escondido. Tuition includes boarding at this 11 acre natural healing estate. There are 2 spas, a pool, trails, fountains, orchards and an outdoor ampitheater where Tantra Theater will perform under the stars.</p>
<p><em><strong>HOW MUCH? </strong></em>Tuition includes rustic accommodations, all 10 classes, admission to all evening parties, two optional tele-classes and is <span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>ONLY $397. </strong></em></span></p>
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<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>The first 10 participants to register get $100-off!</strong></em></span></h3>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff0000;"><em><strong>Call 858-272-2254 Today to Register or Visit <a href="http://blisscoach.com" target="_blank">BlissCoach.com!</a></strong></em></span></h3>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><em><strong>The Juicy Details: </strong></em>This is a ground-breaking festival will happen over Columbus day weekend: Fri. Oct. 8-Mon.11th. on a beautiful 11 acre retreat property in Escondido, just outside of San Diego. This Year&#8217;s theme is &#8220;SACRED SEXUAL SHAMANISM.&#8221; Only 64 friends, lovers and visitors will be creating intentional community for 4 days in a garden paradise in the hills of Escondido, Ca. Together we will study, practice, play, eat, sleep and awaken. If you&#8217;ve been wanting to expand your experience of depth and connection from sex, spirituality, and community this is the place to be!</p>
<p><em><strong>What actually Happens? </strong></em>We&#8217;ll kick off on Friday night with a sensual puja led by master Francoise, and then will continue all day on Saturday, Sunday and Monday afternoon with this powerful line up of teachers: Dave Cates, Jaiya Ma, Kirin Khalsa, Liquid Bowls, Reid Mihalko, Robert Silber, and Shawn Roop. Kamala Devi will be your coach and Mistress of Ceremonies. Each teacher will teach for approximately 2-hours, and will be living in resident community for the duration of the retreat.</p>
<p>The weekend takes place in an 11 acre natural healing estate (clothing optional) with 2 spas, a pool, trails, fountains, orchards and an outdoor amphitheater where Tantra Theater will perform under the stars. In the evenings, we&#8217;ll have a transformative Tantra Theater Performances followed by sacred sensual play parties and shamanic journeys!</p>
<p><em><strong>Tuition, room &amp; board? </strong></em>This four day residential event is only $397, which includes. all of the classes, parties, and basic rustic accomodations which are dormatory sleeping or camping (first come first serve basis.)<br />
If you have special needs for space or privacy, you can pay more for private accommodations please contact tantrikakalidas (at) gmail (dot) com If you want to check out the grounds go to:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.hiddenvalleyspa.com/Facility.html" target="_blank">http://www.hiddenvalleyspa.com/Facility.html</a><br />
<a href="http://www.hiddenvalleyspa.com/"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3804" title="Hidden Valley Spa" src="http://www.reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Hidden-Valley-Spa-300x123.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="123" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Food will be community potluck, kitchen experience. Once you register, you will be assigned to a kitchen crew and will be asked to bring a specific dish for a specific meal.</p>
<p>We understand that not everyone make it to all three days of the festival, but there are<span style="text-decoration: underline;"> no discounted day passes</span>. The tuition is set at such a reasonable price that we trust you will still get immense value and attend as much as possible. Act fast, the registrations are rolling in.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><em>This retreat is designed for women, men, singles, couples, teachers and students who already have a daily tantra practice. Let us know if you are coming from out-of-town and would like a list of local homes or hotels. </em></h3>
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