Let Reid Mihalko help you figure out “how to figure out” (and how to communicate) what you need to make your relationships work best!

No matter whether your single, dating, married, monogamous or polyamorous, if you don’t know what works for you and how to communicate it, you’re in for trouble….

If you haven’t a clue what your boundaries are, if you “kinda know ‘em” but could use some more clarity, or if you know them but don’t know how to put them into words, this 2-hours is for you!

Join sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for a humorous and pragmatic, PG-13 rated, 2-hours of relationship negotiation made simple. Learn black belt relationship skills in how to figure out what your needs are in love and romance, the needs of your partners, and how to put it all into words!

Date: Friday,  13th, 2010
Time: 7-9pm
Location: The Sharma Center
Cost: $15 pre-register, $20 at the door
Due to the center’s limited space (40 people tops!), the address is only given out after you RSVP • Please RSVP for all Sharma Center Events at rsvp@sharmacenter.org • Please call on the day of the event 206-898-5876 for availability if you haven’t RSVP’d.

ABOUT REID: Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps people create more self-esteem and greater health in their relationship and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating. He has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media.

Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Watch and Learn as Real Sex Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best Bedroom Moves…

What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head?

Let’s face it, sex is one of the few things we’re not allowed to learn by watching others. You go to a fancy dinner. You don’t know which spoon to use. You watch to see what spoon everyone else uses… But don’t know what to do how in the bedroom, or want to add a few tricks to your repertoire? No such luck!

Tonight’s Iron Slut Sex Educators:
Reid Mihalko
VS.
Certified Somatic Sexologist,
Sex Ed Film Producer,
and “Pro-Squirter”…
Tallulah Sulis!

Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko and celebrate sex ed film producer and “pro-squirter,” Tallulah Sulis, and watch as they go hand-to-hand sharing their personal stories and bed room secrets!

DATE: Thursday, August 5th, 2010
TIME: 7-9:30pm
LOCATION: Fruitopia event space
1080 23rd Ave. Ste. 110, Oakland CA 94606
COST: $30 day-of at the door; $25 advanced, on-line tickets and $20 for Threesomes and Moresomes!

Watch and Learn as Real Sex Educators Go Head To Head and Reveal Their Best Bedroom Moves…

What better way to learn about practical sex education that you can actually use than to watch two sex educators literally go head to head?

Let’s face it, sex is one of the few things we’re not allowed to learn by watching others. You go to a fancy dinner. You don’t know which spoon to use. You watch to see what spoon everyone else uses… But don’t know what to do how in the bedroom, or want to add a few tricks to your repertoire? No such luck!

Tonight’s Iron Slut Sex Educators:
Reid Mihalko
VS.
Nurse-midwife and Gynecology Nurse-practitioner-turned-Workshop Guru…
Sheri Winston!

Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko and celebrate author Sheri Winston, Wholistic Sexuality Teacher and Counselor, Founder & Executive Director of the Center for the Intimate Arts, and watch as they go hand-to-hand sharing their personal stories and bed room secrets!

DATE: Saturday, July 31st, 2010
TIME: 7-9:30pm
LOCATION: Fruitopia event space
1080 23rd Ave. Ste. 110, Oakland CA 94606
COST: $30 day-of at the door; $25 advanced, on-line tickets and $20 for Threesomes and Moresomes!

4-hours of in depth, demystifying teachings revealing the secrets and nuances of Kundalini-opening sex!

• Curious about how yoga, breathwork, Tantra, your anatomy and your orgasm all fit together?
• Looking to take your lovemaking to higher levels of arousal and ecstasy?
• Curious if it’s possible to orgasm just by breathing???
• Want to knock your lovers’ socks not just off, but clear across the room?

Join sexperts Reid Mihalko and Sheri Winston for an afternoon of experiential, one-on-one and group learning designed to make Energetic Sex simple and attainable, and fun!

Think it’s impossible to orgasm just by breathing? Think again! Let Reid and Sheri show you what’s possible in the bedroom and beyond…

In this 4-hour, R-rated class with fully-clothed exercises and fully-clothed demonstrations, you will learn:

• The basics anatomy of human arousal, what Energetic Sex is, and how it works.
• How to use breathing to heighten your pleasure and orgasmic response, and even trigger orgasms.
• Exercises and practices you can take home and use today!
• Simple, pragmatic, non-”woo-woo” approaches to incorporating Energetic Sex and Breath-gasms into your bedroom activities tonight.
• Ways Energetic Sex and Breath-gasms can be applied to sexual dysfunctions and challenges in the bedroom.

Reid demonstrates an energetic orgasm and what he calls "Tantric Twitchies" (Kriyas) for the audience with the generous help of Amber Seitz at a workshop in Oakland

Date: Saturday, July 31st
Time: Noon-4pm
Location: Fruitopia event space
1080 23rd Ave, Ste. 110, Oakland 94606
Cost: $99 per person, $158 for two (Save 20%!)

1-Person for the Day

Buy 2 tickets and SAVE 20%!

This workshop is Rated-R. No nudity. No explicit sexual contact. Adult language, frank content. Reid’s no questions asked, money-back guarantee if you’re not fully satisfied.

HAVEN’T HAD YOUR FILL YET?

DON’T MOVE!!!

Join Reid and Sheri, Saturday evening, in the same location for:

IRON SLUT SEX EDUCATOR SHOWDOWN!…

ABOUT SHERI: Sheri Winston CNM, RN, BSN, LMT, is a medical professional, sexuality educator and author who is on a mission to transform our culture’s attitudes about sex.

Wholistic Sexuality Teacher and Counselor, Founder & Executive Director of the Center for the Intimate Arts, Sheri’s journey began when she became a licensed massage therapist in 1980. She soon discovered that she felt called to become a midwife and began assisting and apprenticing at home births. That was rapidly followed by becoming a childbirth educator and doula (someone who provides professional labor support). In order to become a legal midwife, she attended nursing school and graduated valedictorian, summa cum laude, receiving her BSN (Bachelor’s degree in Science of Nursing) and becoming a RN (registered nurse). Finally, she attended midwifery school for her graduate education, becoming a certified nurse-midwife and gynecology nurse-practitioner.

Sheri has always been a teacher. During her first two decades of clinical practice, Sheri Winston also taught Childbirth Education & WomanCraft, classes on pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding and women’s health issues.* A decade ago, in response to a growing awareness of the need for accurate, comprehensive, accessible and empowering information about sex, she expanded into sexuality education and began development of what has become her major work, the Wholistic Sexuality Curriculum.

Sheri is now retired from clinical practice to focus full time on teaching Workshops and Counseling through the Center for the Intimate Arts. She also lectures and makes appearances around the country to talk about sex and Wholistic Sexuality. Sheri believes her twenty years in women’s health care have given her an excellent foundation for sexuality education and counseling, and formed her unique approach.  She has also studied a wide variety of holistic healing modalities including integral health, herbalism, energy healing, psychological and emotional healing, women’s health, and many hands-on healing techniques.

She feels that life is for learning and believes that her current calling is to help transform our culture into one that celebrates sex as our vital life force, as a source of ecstasy, and as the glue and lubricant of delicious intimate relationships. She invites you to make your own journey to empowering yourself with information about your body, your potential and about Wholistic Sexuality!

Reid Mihalko: Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (Cuddle Party, Speed-Flirting) to the rated-R (Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, Show-N-Tell sex education workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes, and ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and health adults in and out of the bedroom.

Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.

Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

10 Tantra Teachers Over 4 Days on 11-Acres In the Sunshine and Under the Stars…

WHO? Teachers include Reid Mihalko, David Cates, Francoise, Jaiya ma, Katie Weatherup, Kirin Khalsa, Liquid Bells, Robert Silber, Shawn Roop and Kamala Devi. The retreat is limieted to 64 sexy spiritis from around the country.

WHAT? In 8-8-08 Kamala Devi offered an initiation. In 9-9-09 there was an activation. And THIS year we delve into the realm of sexual shamanism.

WHEN? Friday, Oct. 8th thru Monday, Oct. 11th (Columbus Day). Friday night starts with a sensual puja @ 7p and continues with classses, parties, and performances art until 4pm, Monday.

WHERE? A garden paradise in the hills of Escondido. Tuition includes boarding at this 11 acre natural healing estate. There are 2 spas, a pool, trails, fountains, orchards and an outdoor ampitheater where Tantra Theater will perform under the stars.

HOW MUCH? Tuition includes rustic accommodations, all 10 classes, admission to all evening parties, two optional tele-classes and is ONLY $397.

The first 10 participants to register get $100-off!

Call 858-272-2254 Today to Register or Visit BlissCoach.com!

The Juicy Details: This is a ground-breaking festival will happen over Columbus day weekend: Fri. Oct. 8-Mon.11th. on a beautiful 11 acre retreat property in Escondido, just outside of San Diego. This Year’s theme is “SACRED SEXUAL SHAMANISM.” Only 64 friends, lovers and visitors will be creating intentional community for 4 days in a garden paradise in the hills of Escondido, Ca. Together we will study, practice, play, eat, sleep and awaken. If you’ve been wanting to expand your experience of depth and connection from sex, spirituality, and community this is the place to be!

What actually Happens? We’ll kick off on Friday night with a sensual puja led by master Francoise, and then will continue all day on Saturday, Sunday and Monday afternoon with this powerful line up of teachers: Dave Cates, Jaiya Ma, Kirin Khalsa, Liquid Bowls, Reid Mihalko, Robert Silber, and Shawn Roop. Kamala Devi will be your coach and Mistress of Ceremonies. Each teacher will teach for approximately 2-hours, and will be living in resident community for the duration of the retreat.

The weekend takes place in an 11 acre natural healing estate (clothing optional) with 2 spas, a pool, trails, fountains, orchards and an outdoor amphitheater where Tantra Theater will perform under the stars. In the evenings, we’ll have a transformative Tantra Theater Performances followed by sacred sensual play parties and shamanic journeys!

Tuition, room & board? This four day residential event is only $397, which includes. all of the classes, parties, and basic rustic accomodations which are dormatory sleeping or camping (first come first serve basis.)
If you have special needs for space or privacy, you can pay more for private accommodations please contact tantrikakalidas (at) gmail (dot) com If you want to check out the grounds go to:

http://www.hiddenvalleyspa.com/Facility.html

Food will be community potluck, kitchen experience. Once you register, you will be assigned to a kitchen crew and will be asked to bring a specific dish for a specific meal.

We understand that not everyone make it to all three days of the festival, but there are no discounted day passes. The tuition is set at such a reasonable price that we trust you will still get immense value and attend as much as possible. Act fast, the registrations are rolling in.

This retreat is designed for women, men, singles, couples, teachers and students who already have a daily tantra practice. Let us know if you are coming from out-of-town and would like a list of local homes or hotels.

Reid’s Tantra for Beginners and the first Hands-On Energetic Sex 2-Day Intensive went so well, that he’s running it again, July 1oth and 11th in Santa Monica…

Day-1 will be Rated-R. Day-2 will be more explicit. Read below…

This 2-day workshop Intensive is designed for curious beginners, intermediate seekers and advanced practitioners.

Perhaps you’ve heard of Tantra and remember reading somewhere (last month’s Cosmo?) something about “expanded orgasms,” but think that kind of stuff is only for people like Sting, yoga instructors or Jedi.

Maybe you or a lover has had ecstatic experiences in the bedroom involving post-orgasmic spasms that seem to have a mind of their own, but these spasms come and go infrequently enough that you can’t tell if they’re real or not.

Maybe you or your lover get these spasms all the time and you’ve since named them “the twitchys,” and when you told your friend the Kundalini yoga instructor about ‘em, they lit up and told you those spasms have a Sandskrit name called Kriyas (which you promptly forgot ’cause you don’t speak Sandskrit).

Whatever your level of experience with sex that seems to be “more than just sex,” join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for 2-days of humorous and informative instruction, sex education, and live demonstrations on this esoteric (and yet more common than you think) realm of sex: Energetic Sex.

Day-1 will be Rated-R with a Show-N-Tell, Watch and Ask Questions format. All Day-1  demonstrations will be fully clothed. Day-2 is Rated NC-17, with more explicit demonstrations. Participants on Day-2 will be practicing fully-clothed exercises. No one under 18 admitted to either day, and no participant nudity.

Day-2 Limited to ONLY 20 Adults, with Day-1 attendance a pre-requisite.

Register ASAP.

Date: Saturday and Sunday, July 10th and 11th, 2010
Time: Saturday time: 1-5, Sunday time: 1-5pm
Location: Shiatsu Massage School of Santa Monica
2309 Main Street
Santa Monica CA 90405
Cost: Day-1 only: $97
Both Days: $197
Day-2: Attendance at Day-1 is a prerequisite to participate in Day-2.

Day-1: You’ll watch while Reid demonstrates.

You will be introduced to:

• Reid’s particular views on how sexual energy “behaves” and how it “works,” as well as ways you can begin accessing more energetic awareness in the bedroom
• What Kriyas (“the twitchys”) can look like and what to do when you or a lover experiences them
• Three possible approaches for engaging sexual energy and expanding it when exploring energetic sex with a partner or solo with yourself
• What playing a singing saw has to do with energetic sex and expanding your lovemaking
• Simple breathing and “presence” techniques to build up energetic awareness
• How to use “pressure play” and where so you can help unlock and activate points on your lover’s body to augment energetic experiences during love making
• A few advance tips and tricks that will make you smile and your partner moan regardless of whether “the twitchys” happen or not!

Day-2: Sunday limited to 20 participants only!

The group will watch explicit demonstrations from Reid and his models to review and enhance techniques covered on Day-1. Reid will introduce fully-clothed, voluntary exercises for class participants, along with personal and group coaching and guidance, to begin exploring, embodying and anchoring the content.

Some of Day-2’s content:

• How nudity changes sexual energy
• Techniques to enhance energetic lovemaking on female and male gendered bodies that are naked as opposed to clothed
• Techniques to keep erotic energy “in check” when and if you happen to be easily excitable and your partner becomes VERY excited…
• Fully-clothed exercises you and a partner can use to practice energetic sex (and time during Day-2 to try them out, if you’re a yes!)
• A variety of sexual positions that can help unlock and activate and energize you and your lover’s bodies during love making
• Live demonstrations of advance tips and tricks that will make you smile and your partner moan regardless of whether “the twitchys” happen or not!
• How to prevent energetic “burn out” or -as Reid likes to say- “How not to fry you and your partners’ brains!”

Come see for yourself just how energetic sex can be! And begin embodying it, too!

Whether you’d like to believe that energetic sex is possible but have never felt it, have a lover that experiences “the twitchys,” or it’s YOU who’s the one flopping around in bed wanting to learn how to harness these sexual energies, Reid’s Hands-On Energetic Sex Intensive is for you.

Please remember that this workshop spans Reid’s R-Rated and Rated NC-17 workshop offerings, which means no one under 18 will be admitted. Why the age cutoff? Because Day-2 of this workshop includes explicit (and, at times, quite humorous) sexual content and adult sex education. Day-1 is just as funny and frank, but it will be more R-rated. If you are not okay with frank demonstrations, sexual language, and nudity, then please refrain from attending Day-2 of this workshop and consider attending only Day-1 or one of Reid’s other Rated-R or Rated-PG13 workshops. Thanks!

This is not a partner workshop. You may attend solo, but we encourage you to bring your friends, so spread the word!

Workshop participants will not have to participate. Day-1 of this workshop is designed for participants to watch, take notes, ask questions, and to learn. Day-2 is designed with voluntary, fully-clothed exercises for participants to begin exploring, embodying and anchoring the information, techniques and teachings. No participants will be getting naked during these two days.

Not sure what Energetic Sex is? Download Reid’s FREE PODCAST BELOW…

An Outrageous Evening of Safer Sex Info and eXXXtreme Sex Education with Reid Mihalko

Feel a little intimidate or embarrassed by the idea of adult toys? Do you think deep throating is impossible to learn? Perhaps your asking yourself, “Dental dams? What the heck are dental dams!?”

Let’s face it, most people want to feel confident in between the sheets and our culture does a horrible job educating us on being sexually savvy. Worse, when it does, sex education often feels like going to the dentist.

That was, until now…

Date: Wed, July 7th, 2010
Time: 8-10pm Pacific
Cost: FREE! – Psssst… July is also “Buy 1 vibrator, get the 2nd half off” at The Pleasure Chest!
Where: West Hollywood’s The Pleasure Chest
7733 Santa Monica Blvd.
West Hollywood CA 90046
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Join world renowned sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for an outrageously informative, irreverent and hilarious evening of R-rated, adult education and demonstration.

In this 2-hour workshop, you will learn…

• The ins and outs of dildo use
• Why the phrase “professional tools create professional results” is key to building an amazing sex life!
• Why using sex toys means you’re awesome and not “less-than” as a lover…
• What a dental dam is and how to use one
• How to deep throat and how to teach your lovers!
• Great tips for oral sex on men and women
• The basics of safer sex and how to negotiate safer sex with ease

If you (or your partners) think “prophylactic” is the name of a Star Wars character, get your butt to this workshop!

If you want a dildo or want to upgrade on the one you already have, if you don’t have a clue where to start or which one is right for you or your lover… If you think that deep throating is only for porn stars or that dental dams are just for the dentist’s office… Then Reid’s Dilods, Dental Dams and Deep Throating is for you!

This is a two-hour, co-ed workshop for all sexual orientations, identities, and relationship statuses. This workshop includes some live, fully-clothed demonstrations, explicit language and lots of laughter. Like all of Reid’s R-rated workshops: No participation or nudity required by participants. Bring a notebook, watch, giggle and ask questions!

Also in Santa Monica July 10-11th…

Reid’s Energetic Sex 2-Day Intensive

Reid demonstrates an energetic orgasm and what he calls "Tantric Twitchies" (Kriyas) for the audience with the generous help of Amber Seitz at a workshop in Oakland

ABOUT REID: Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (Cuddle Party, Speed-Flirting) to the rated-R (Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, Show-N-Tell sex education workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes, and ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and health for adults in and out of the bedroom.

Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.

Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

• Are you a workshop facilitator looking to enhance your facilitation kung-fu?
• Do you lead groups or create experiences for people that focus on, explore or involve intimacy and trust?
• Are you interested in leading Cuddle Parties or creating and running your workshops like Reid Mihalko runs his?
• Curious about how Reid and Marcia Baczynski have managed to train their growing organization of 50+ Cuddle Party facilitators across five countries and three continents in less than 5 years?

Foundations of Facilitation Training, created by world renowned sex educators Reid Mihalko and Marcia Baczynski, is a weekend-long intensive program designed to provide you with the skills you need to create powerful, transformative workshops. Created by the inventors of Cuddle Party, this training will provide you with the tools you need to enhance your confidence, create new depth to your presentations, and improve your ability to create relatedness with just about anyone. Whether you are new to running events for groups, or have been facilitating for years, this interactive, hands-on training has much to offer.

If you’re a Yes to any of the above questions,

come spend the weekend with Reid!

“I took my first facilitator training 30 years ago, and it’s been a long, long time since I learned so much in one weekend.” — Ankha, Minnesota

Read this Extraordinary Testimonial from Madeleon HERE!

Over the course of the weekend, you will learn how to:

• create safe, non-sexual space to explore intimacy on both a personal and professional level
• lead workshops that leave your participants feeling touched, open, valued and nurtured
• generate an environment where women and men communicate more authentically
• listen profoundly
• create a powerful relatedness with strangers quickly and easily
• be more open to others and able to give and receive comfortably
• create strong boundaries for yourself without shutting others down

You will also learn:

• tools for building a strong, intimate community
• advanced tools for handling rejection
• communication techniques that open people up to discuss intimacy, desires, fears and needs

Foundations of Facilitation has trained over 200 men and women. They have consistently rated FoF as one of the best training workshops available… and these workshop junkies, facilitator black belts and self-help gurus know workshops!

“Most training weekends of this kind cost nearly a $1000. The Foundations of Facilitation training weekend is only $495 and comes with my money-back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied. So what have you got to loose? Come to Chicago and spend it with me!”

~Reid

2010's Oakland FOF Intensive Group after their Friday night Cuddle Party kick-off!

Whether you simply want to enhance your own leadership skills or become a certified Cuddle Party Facilitator, this is one weekend you won’t want to miss. Join us for one of our upcoming 2010 FoF training weekends:

Jun 18-20, 2010 in Santa Cruz, CA

Jun 25-27, 2010 in Chicago, IL with Reid Mihalko!

Sep 24-26, 2010 in Toronto, ON, Canada

Oct 01-03, 2010 in DC/Mid-Atlantic Area

Jan 21-23, 2011 in Atlanta (area), GA

Feb 25-27, 2011 in Oakland

Cheap Airfares to The Windy City AND Reid: What RU waiting for!?! by Airfarewatchdog.com

Change people’s lives. REGISTER NOW for Foundations of Facilitation Training. For more information, visit the training schedule or our Training FAQ.

“I encourage anyone with a hankering to become a CP facilitator to take the leap and DO IT!  It has been one of my greatest joys for the past 3 years…after all, how many people can say that they come to work in their p’j’s, get paid to touch and be touched and it’s legal?  <3″

— Edie Weinstein, Philledelphia, PA

“Of all the workshops I’ve attended, the [Foundations of Facilitation] Training has given me the most practical and useful tools to create and maintain direct, open and honest communication with EVERYONE in my life DAILY.”

— Tracy, Alabama

Cuddle Party creator, Reid Mihalko, leading a week’s worth of amazing education in the Windy City!

Chicago, IL • June 22-27th, 2010

• July 22nd: Dildos, Dental Dams and Deep Throating
• July 23rd: Backdoor Luvin’: Anal Play for Beginners
• July 25th: Chicago Cuddle Party with Reid!
• July 25-27th: Foundations of Facilitation Weekend Intensive (See below)

Foundations of Facilitation Weekend with Reid

• Are you a workshop facilitator looking to enhance your facilitation kung-fu?
• Do you lead groups or create experiences for people that focus on, explore or involve intimacy and trust?
• Are you interested in leading Cuddle Parties or creating and running your workshops like Reid Mihalko runs his?
• Curious about how Reid and Marcia Baczynski have managed to train their growing organization of 50+ Cuddle Party facilitators across five countries and three continents in less than 5 years?

If you’re a Yes to any of the above questions,
come spend the weekend with Reid!

Click HERE for more info!

Curious? Learning more about something doesn’t mean you have to try it...

With the popularity of Bend Over Boyfriend videos, the proliferation of sex-toy stores aimed at women, and memorable pop culture boudior twists on television (Remember the surprise Andy received from his sexy, Rabbinical teacher in Showtime’s Weeds, season 2?), the practice known as Pegging, i.e. anal penetration on a man via a strap-on dildo, has become a popular fantasy for many people.

The idea of strap-on play no longer exists as something solely for lesbians and dominatrices. Pegging (nods to sex columnist Dan Savage for coining the term), and the play surrounding it, can be a sexy, fun and adventurous way for men and women to explore new dynamics and sensations in the bedroom. Yet, without a game partner or a certain amount of experience and communication confidence, pegging can be a nerve-wracking adventure all but destined to end badly.

Butt-  Reid and Allie are here to help!

In season 2 of Showtime's Weeds, Andy receives a crash course in Pegging. Let Reid and Allie make it waaaaay easier...

Join sex and relationship educators (and veteran peg’sters) Reid Mihalko and Allie Moon as they guide you through a laughter-filled and pragmatic “he-said, she-said” workshop that takes you from soup to… er, nuts!

Date: Thurs, June 3rd
Time: 7 – 9pm
Location: Center for Sex and Culture
1519 Mission Street (between 11th and So. Van Ness)
San Francisco CA 94103

Cost: Early-Bird On-Line SAVINGS! – $15 to $10 tickets…
$20 day-of, at the door.

In this 2-hour, informative and humorous workshop, where you get to watch, take notes and ask any and all your questions, you will learn:

• Strap-On Basics for Women
• Simple techniques for fun and easy bottoming/receiving
• Ways to bring up the idea of pegging without freaking out your partners!
• Communication and negotiation skills that will deepen your love life…
• Safer Sex protocols and hygiene tips
• Special considerations when working with butts
• Unique and fun positions perfect for Woman-on-Man sex
• Some simple fem-dom techniques (nothing too scary, we promise!)
• And much, much more!

Whether you’ve been dying to explore strap-on play, just heard about pegging today, or are looking for an outrageous workshop to bring your date or friends too, Pegging 101 with Allie and Reid is sure to give you your money’s worth in shame-free, Show-N-Tell sex education. Show up with your questions and leave with new-found confidence and self-esteem for your relationships and sex life!

This workshop is one of Reid’s Rated NC17 workshops. No one under 18 admitted due to the frank content and explicit demonstrations.

About Allie Moon: Sapphic savant and former “mayor” of Camp Beaverton for Wayward Girls, Burning Man’s home for queer women, Allie has been doling out sex tips for years.

Certified by the Ohio Board of Health in STD and HIV prevention, Allie also works for the LA Gay & Lesbian Center, and writes sex advice for a number of publications. She’s a pro at helping novices earn their stripes. She is currently finishing her first novel, which you can follow at www.talesofthepack.com.

About Reid Mihalko: Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps people create more self-esteem and greater health in their relationship and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.
Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Just in time for Mother’s Day…

The menage a trios is a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure potential, but navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night) can be tricky.

Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com for this R-rated, fun-filled, two-hour workshop (with live demonstrations!) and enough laughs and sex “edutainment” for three!

Really…

If the idea of “doubling your pleasure” gives your tummy the butterflies, have we got the workshop for you… (With live demonstrations, too!)

DATE: Friday, May 7th, 2010
TIME: 7:45-9:45 p.m.
Cost: $25 pre-paid, $30 at the door
WHERE: Sexy Spirits, 301 W 55 St #4, NYC

Due to limited space RSVP early!

Not only will you get a chance to ask questions, but we’ll cover:

• What are the best techniques to satisfy two lovers at once?
• Ways to overcome fears and concerns – Yours AND your partner’s!
• The most common threesome mistakes (and how to avoid them!)
• How to negotiate boundaries and safer sex protocols to make your next menage a trios tré bien!

Interested in M-F-M threesomes, F-M-F threesomes, F-F-F threesomes or M-M-M threesomes?… Whether you’ve had more threesomes than Jim Morrison or are just beginning to consider three-in-a-bed might be something you’d like to explore, this workshop will give you plenty of tools, tricks, perspectives and laughs to enhance your love life and strengthen your relationships!

Even if you would NEVER be interested in a 3-way, this fun-filled class will give you lots of ways to talk to your loved ones about the things you DO WANT in the bedroom – no matter how tame or outrageous!

Bring your loved ones, bring your friends, and enjoy an educational and entertaining evening on how to successfully navigate one of the most common sexual fantasies: the threesome!

ABOUT REID: Reid Mihalko of www.ReidAboutSex.com helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be.

From his rated-PG/PG-13 workshops (Cuddle Party, Speed-Flirting) to the rated-R (Iron Slut Sex Educator Showdown) to his explicit, NC-17 rated, Show-N-Tell sex education workshops (where audiences get to watch, take notes, and ask questions), Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating on fulfilling his mission: Create more self-esteem, self-confidence and health adults in and out of the bedroom.

Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality and is a sought-after presenter and teacher at colleges and sex positive stores across the country.

Reid has been a writer and producer on a number of films and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

A FREE and Entertaining and Night of Sex Education with Reid Mihalko, an over-ripe Melon, and a Zucchini…

Do you wish you had more tricks and know-how when it comes to using your hands on your lovers? Feel confident when it comes to your usual “hand-jive” routine but want to add a few new surprises in your bag of tricks? Perhaps you get good grades from your sex partners when it comes to love making but their genitalia and erogenous zones still mystify you?

In today’s “Insert Tab A into Slot B”-centric culture, Hand Sex is one of the most overlooked and untapped sources of pleasure. And unlike your standard “go-to” sex equipment, God gave most of us two hands with five digits each, which, when you do the math, equals way more than just doubling your pleasure!

DATE: Wed, May 12th, 2010
TIME: 8-10pm
LOCATION: Los Angeles’ The Pleasure Chest
COST: FREE!

Join world renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com for an entertaining, low pressure and informative workshop on how to make love to men and women using your hands.

In this 2-hour workshop, complete with live demonstrations (on produce!) where you get to watch and ask questions, Reid will cover:

• How you can transform your hands into one of your best sexual assets!
• Ways to utilize the zillions of nerves in your fingers and hands to “listen” to and track your partner’s sexual response so you can access better information and make him or her squeal
• Several “best practices” for accessing and stimulating a woman’s erogenous zones
• Reid’s best kept secret of Hand Sex: how to use pressure and your own body weight to drive your partner crazy!
• How to take the sexual equipment you were born with (and are probably most familiar with) and map out what you already know onto someone else’s plumbing so you don’t have to think!
• G-Spot, P-Spot, the Reach Around and the Finger Bang made easy!
• Safer Sex hand hygiene so you can go mano a mano with confidence…
• Ways to use verbal communication during love-making so that your partners can better relax and leave their pleasure, literally, “in your hands”

You don’t have to go to medical school to have the hands of a surgeon and you don’t have to be born a lesbian to know how to use your hands!

Whether you are a man or a woman, and no matter what your age, gender or sexual preference, masterfully making love to another with your hands can be a huge turn-on and self-esteem boost. Not to mention that Hand Sex is one of the best fall-back plans (or savvy, lead-with tactics) to have at the ready when the rest of you is worn out or incapacitated, or you’re just looking to roll up your sleeves and spice things up!

Let your fingers learn how to do the walking and join Reid for this Rated-R workshop for adults.

DATE: Wed, May 12th, 2010
TIME: 8-10pm
LOCATION: Los Angeles’ The Pleasure Chest
COST: FREE!

ABOUT REID: Reid Mihalko helps people create more self-esteem and greater health in their relationship and sex lives, no matter what their self-expression of those happen to be or where their interests lie.

Reid has worked with thousands of individuals from myriad walks of life, orientations, relationship styles, countries and religions. Known for his charisma, wit and emphasis on integrity, Reid travels the country teaching, coaching, consulting and collaborating. He has been a writer and producer on a number of film and television projects about sex and relationships, and appears regularly in the media.

Reid has been a featured speaker at dozens of conferences on relationships and sexuality. He has also appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, and the short-lived Life & Style, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, People, Newsweek and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.