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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS & EVENTS
(Chronological Order)

These upcoming events may be in-person events or virtual. Virtual events tend to be recorded, so sign up and play catch-up! Two ** in the event listing indicates that it’s designed for Sex Educators & Sex-Positive Entreprenures. Some events have tiered ticket pricing and scholarships available. Please click the links to see the registration pages for more info!

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Event Banner for Bliss Boogie. Background is a tree of life style silhouette with everal people around it. One the right an image of Reid from waste up smiling warmly.

APRIL 5-7th, PITTSBORO, NC —
THREE OPPORTUNITIES TO LEARN WITH REID AT THE BLISS BOOGIE FEST!

Friday, April 5th at 2 PM – THE SACRED SPACE OF ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY: A PANEL DISCUSSION

This session will delve into the heart of what it means to create and nurture consensual non-monogamous relationships, touching upon the importance of communication, boundaries, and the personal growth that comes from engaging with multiple partners in a respectful, loving manner. Attendees will gain a deeper understanding of the challenges and rewards of Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), along with practical tools and insights to explore their own relational dynamics.

Whether you’re new to the concept of CNM or have been practicing non-monogamy for years, this panel promises to be an enlightening exploration of the many ways love can manifest beyond traditional frameworks. Join us for a discussion that promises to open hearts, expand minds, and celebrate the sacred space of consensual non-monogamy.

Panel discussion moderated by Tobi Bowen and panelists Kai Baylis, Wayne Hall, Wandarella, and Reid.

Saturday, April 6th at 2 PM – UNLEASH YOUR BEAST, How To Become The Uninhibited Change You Want To See In The Bedroom!

Ready to break free from inhibitions and embrace your sexuality? Join us at Unleash Your Beast! Led by renowned sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko, this immersive event offers transformative insights to help you overcome shame, communicate your desires, and experience pleasure with confidence.

Saturday, April 6th at 10 PM – ORAL SEX GRAD SCHOOL

You’ve learned the basics… Now it’s time to get your masters in the advanced tricks, and leave with your PhD in Oral Sex!

These classes are part of Bliss Boogie Fest. Bliss Boogie is an annual eco-friendly, sober, educational festival that celebrates creativity, community, the human interconnected experience, sexuality, and the joy of music, dance, and a celebration of being.

Date and time
FRI, APR 5 – SUN APR 7, 2024
Register and find out more about the event HERE

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Event Banner for The beginners guide to hosting play parties. bloom community. Image of Reid from waste up smiling warmly in the bottom right corner.

APR 19th, PORTLAND, OR — THE BEGINNERS GUIDE TO HOSTING PLAY PARTIES W/ REID MIHALKO – Hosted by SexPositive Portland

You want to throw a play party for your friends but you’re worried it won’t go well…Then I’ve got some good news – throwing a kick-ass play party is easier than you think, especially if you know how!

Get ready to throw the ultimate play party with confidence! Join professional sex geek and play party facilitator, Reid Mihalko, as he shares his best advice and approaches to creating a debaucherously sexy, non-pressured, and consensual experience for you and your friends. Learn how to avoid common mistakes, choose the right party format, set up the perfect space, and invite friends who are the perfect fit. Click the link below to join us and make your next party a resounding success!

Date and time
Thu, Apr 19, 2024, at 9:30 PM – 1:00 AM

Learn more and get your tickets here.

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Event banner for Sex Geek Pro's Copywriting with AI Deep Dive for Sex Geeks. Unleash your copywriting superpowers: Write great copy faster, inspire your audience, and convert like a pro!

**APRIL 20th-21st, VIRTUAL – COPYWRITING AND AI DEEP DIVE FOR SEX GEEKS**

Copy Writing For Sex Positive Professionals: Leveraging Your Self-Expression and AI to Write Authentic Messages that Connect, Inspire, and Convert

If you’ve ever found yourself staring at a blank screen, or cleaning closets rather than writing invitations to your next offering, you are in the right place! 

Get ready for an online weekend of laughter, learning, and unleashing your creative genius at the Copywriting with AI Deep Dive for Sex Geeks workshop on April 20th and 21st. Two extraordinary experts, Reid Mihalko from ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli, will be revolutionizing your copywriting game.

In this engaging and informative class, you’ll discover the power of persuasive writing while having a blast.

Reid and Cathy will guide you through the ins and outs of copywriting, equipping you with the skills to craft compelling content that resonates with your audience. But that’s not all—prepare to witness the magic of AI as we show you how to save a staggering 70% of your marketing time by leveraging artificial intelligence to generate captivating copy for your next offering. (All while keeping your authentic voice!)

This workshop is not your typical dry, boring lecture. We’ve got friendly hot seats where you’ll receive personalized feedback and support from your fellow participants. You’ll become part of a vibrant community that nurtures your growth and success. Plus, we’ll delve into the world of inspirational rather than painful marketing, allowing you to connect with your clients on a deeper level and create lasting impact.

Learn more and get your tickets here.

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Event Banner for Unleash the Beast

APRIL 30th-MAY 7th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — UNLEASH THE BEAST WITH MONIQUE AND REID

Are You Ready To Unleash the Beast?! Up Your Sexual Self-Confidence & Uncage Your Inner Primal Animal? – Let Reid Mihalko and Monique Darling take you on a weeklong immersion into the deepest, naughtiest, most wanton, parts of your desire and passion. (And give you skills to pass that knowledge on to your lovers!)

Come join us for this week-long exploration if you’re ready to dive deep where you will:

  • Discover how to explore sxx and intimacy with the least amount of drama and the most amount of pleasure by unlocking your sxxual self-expression and erotic creativity.
  • Unlearn the fallacy that your partner must be equally as excited for you to be able to ask for the sxx you want.
  • Overcome the worry that people are always saying yes to things they don’t want, and reframe how you and your loved ones can be a yes to what YOU want without it backfiring in your face or used against you later.
  • And much more…

Ticket and & Registration Info HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE.

Event Banner for Energetic Sxx Facilitator Training. Level 1. May 9 - May 16, 2024. Cabo San Luncas, Mexico.

**MAY 9th-16th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — ENERGETIC SXX FACILITATOR TRAINING LVL 1 with REID, MONIQUE, AND PETER

After years of people asking for a facilitator training based solely on Energetic Sxx, it’s finally here!!!

In this 7-day Facilitator Intensive, Reid Mihalko, Monique Darling and Peter Petersen will be inviting you on an in-depth and lovingly guided exploration of energy in and around your body. Walk away with your own level 1 certification to offer Energy Sxx your way!

Drawing on decades of experience of living, teaching, and playing in the multiverse of energetic realms, these three internationally-renown teachers are bringing it all together!

We are selecting and curating the juiciest, the most divine, the most potent experiences we have learned over our lifetimes into these 7 days.

Ticket and & Registration Info HERE
Spread the word on Facebook HERE.

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Photo montage from previous Sex Geek Summer Camps of a diverse range of happy sex educators playing and studying — pictures include a group photo from the first Camp in 2014 of approx 50 people, photos the woods, delicious food, campers laying shoulder-to-shoulder on the ground smiling up at the camera, a pile of colorful rubber ducks with a stainless steel Njoy dildo laying on top, people making smores by a campfire, 10 laughing campers in the swimming pool holding the Sex Geek Summer Camp banner, a black woman in a teal bikini sliding down a blue slip ’n slide, four campers running and laughing through a green field, the final photo is the Camp 2023 group photo of 86 campers. Atop the montage it says, "SexGeekSummerCamp.com, June 15-20th, 2024."

**JUNE 15-20th, PORTLAND, OREGON — ATTN: ALL SEX EDUCATORS!

Learn how to reach MORE clients with LESS hassle while making MORE money… And ride a 350ft Slip ‘N Slide as a tax write-off!

Are you a sex educator, workshop leader, toy blogger, Tantra teacher, therapist, sex worker, burlesque performer, coach (or someone whose career falls under the sex-positive entrepreneur umbrella?)…

If you need some R&R and want to nerd out on how to build a more successful business helping people… Then Sex Geek Summer Camp is for YOU!

Celebrating our 10th Anniversary by adding an extra day this June 15th-20th, 2024, in Portland, Oregon!!!!!

Make new friends and geek out on the business behind the business of sex ed + a 350-ft Slip ‘N Slide + S’mores!!!! What are you waiting for?!

Visit SexGeekSummerCamp.com for more info and to secure your seat at the only 6-day/5-night business, marketing, and networking camp specifically for sex-positive professionals!

FAR-IN-ADVANCE EVENTS
(NEXT YEAR, ETC.)

These are events that have been booked out far in advance, just in case you are someone who likes to plan like that AND sometimes get a deal on early-bird pricing!

Stay tuned for waaaaay in advance events popping up here soon…

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Event Banner for the 10th annual Transformational Intensive for extraordinary facilitators. Transform your work. Uplevel your life. November 1 - 8, 2024. Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. 8 day, 10 instructors. The background for this text is a beach at sunset. Headshots of all 9 presenters are on the left and right sides of the flyer. Clockwise from top left: Monique Darling, Peter Petersen, Reid Mihalko, Major Tom, Dave Booda, Cathy Vartuli, Nikki, Lindbergh, Cathleene Cienfuegos, Shawn Roof, and Lawrence Lanoff.

**NOV 1st-8th, CABO SAN LUCAS, MEXICO — THE 10TH ANNUAL TRANSFORMATIONAL INTENSIVE FOR EXTRAORDINARY FACILITATORS W/ MONIQUE, PETER AND FRIENDS

Eight Days, Ten Instructors! — Join Reid, Monique Darling, Peter Peterson and a host of their favorite teachers for a weeklong deep dive into taking your teaching and facilitation abilities to the next level!

It’s our tenth year, and each one gets better and better!!
This year its in a little slice of heaven, Cabo San Lucas… Beach view Accommodations plus a rooftop with stunning 360 view! It is 8 days, with 10 extraordinary facilitators, and we are opening registration for just 18 attendees. Every year we have sold out!!!
This is the greatest creative inspiration Peter and Monique have ever created. It’s a culmination of their life’s work thus far.
We have spent the last 9 years now traveling the world learning and practicing these tools and now I want to share them with you. So many of you have asked for the steps, for a training to be able to do what we do, well I’m going to offer you one better…. we are going to offer you an intensive, a “Monique & Peter Boot Camp” if you will, with myself and some other extraordinary facilitators, to help you find out what’s in the way of you being able to offer your greatest gift to the world, to your clients, workshop attendees, partners, and every aspect of your life. Always remember YOU! You are the gift!!

Read the more about fabulous event and which teachers will be teaching via either link below…

Ticket & Registration Info HERE
Spread the word oFacebook HERE.


ICYMI — IN CASE YOU MISSED IT…

These offerings are “evergreen,” meaning you can nerd out on them and start solving your problems and upping your sexual self-confidence anytime! Please join us…

Banner. Which of the 8 arms of jealousy kicks your ass the most?
Link to grab your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map

ICYMI… Get Your FREE Jealousy Map!

Did you know that jealousy is an octopus with 8 arms? 🐙 And that each arm points to clues that will lead YOU to defeating the green-eyed monster that’s wreaking so much pain and havoc in our lives!

Use this link so I can send you your free Jealousy Map — http://Bit.ly/jealousy-map

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DO YOU FALL IN LOVE TOO QUICKLY?

Feeling insecure about developing sexual friendships?
Do you find yourself falling in love too soon? Attaching to the wrong people?
Have you heard of Attachment Theory and suspect it might be wreaking havoc on your love life?
If you want to frolic with more grace, love, respect, and loads of pleasure this year…

Join educators (and self-identified sluts) Misha Bonaventura & Reid Mihalko and OVER 200+ amazing, like-minded humans for a 5-week, learn-at-your-own-pace, video series exploring how we sometimes “fall in love too soon,” why we sometimes form premature attachments to others, and what we can do to make healthier, more conscious choices! Come nerd out on attachment styles & the unique ways we fall in love (not everyone falls in love the same way, BTW!) so we can foster healthier, more conscious relationships!

From Premature Attachment To Slut Secure covers:

  • Week 1: I Like You, Now What?
  • Week 2: Dealing with Relationship Escalation Creep
  • Week 3: Finding & Falling Into Security
  • Week 4: Creating An Open Embrace
  • Week 5: Being SECURE, No Matter What!

Misha and Reid want you to have all the amazing & yummy things you’re wishing for in the New Year. Have all the sex, have all the friendships, and have all the love with all the ease. Mitigate the hard feelings, the presumptions, the premature attachment woes as you hone and celebrate your sex & intimacy superpowers!

Access all recordings, worksheets, and the Slut Secure Community Forum for $197!
See the whole event breakdown and register HERE.

Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, Money-Back, Happiness Guarantee.

REPEATING
WEEKLY & MONTHLY
EVENTS…


PAST WORKSHOPS —
That Have Been Recorded…

Just because you missed it, doesn’t mean you can’t participate! Purchase access to the recordings and bonuses NOW…

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DATING YOUR SPECIES, the workshop

Get lifetime access to Dating Your Species for just $47. Watch the videos, do the worksheets, learn how to avoid the Venn Diagram of Misery and start Dating Your Species!
CLICK HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

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Blowjob Grad School, the workshop

Get lifetime access to Bj Grad School — the videos, the handout — for just $47!
Click HERE for more info.
Comes with Reid’s 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee: Test-drive all the course materials for an entire month! If you learn nothing, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund.

**Offerings for Sex Educators,
Therapists, Workshop Facilitators,
and the Sex-Ed Adjacent…

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Attn: Educators! Reach More People, Help More People, Attract More Paying Clients…

Join Cathy of TheIntimacyDojo.com, Reid of ReidAboutSex.com, and some amazing sex educators for 2-days of recorded classes focusing on creating (and actually implementing) your very own kick-ass freemium! Help those in need while you build your credibility as an educator and turn the curious into clients!

More info and course registration HERE >>
Sign-Up for the FREE training on How To Give Good Freemium HERE >>



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Sarah schwab October 10, 2012 at 12:45 pm

Reid, I would like to sign up for your calendar. I missed your work shop last weekend here in Denver but I am interested in finding out where your next one will be. Last night in Denver you were awesome and “eye opening!!” – I’ve been with my husband for 13 years and three kids later we could both use some tips to keep it interesting… I walked away with a we-vib but I’m sure there is more we can learn/ do.

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Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:13 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Sarah, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex

Thanks for the comment. Sorry for the delayed response.

Yours in sex geekery,
REiD

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Lucien Vattel December 28, 2012 at 12:47 am

Would like the calendar of events Reid!
met at Mindshare.

lucien

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Dorothy January 2, 2013 at 1:02 pm

Would be interested in attending a seminar or workshop.

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Reid June 11, 2013 at 1:07 pm

The easiest ways to see where I’m teaching, Dorothy, are to sign up for my newsletter announcements (http://ReidAboutSex.com/newsletter) and to follow my FB Fan Page – http://Facebook.com/ReidAboutSex – and my Twitter account – http://Twitter.com/ReidAboutSex

Hope to meet you one day!

Hugs,
REiD

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Miriam December 13, 2013 at 3:28 am

Reid,

I was wondering if you’ll be going to Australia anytime “soon”

Hugs!

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Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:19 pm

Someday, Miriam! If you know of any organizations who want to lure me Down Under, let them know to reach out to me via this website! I’d love to be an International Sex Geek! Thanks for writing, Miriam. xxREiD

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bea of san luis obispo December 18, 2013 at 2:36 am

Monique says you will be in Vegas for Valentine’s weekend. Whats the event? I get your newsletter but haven’t seen it. Thanks, bea

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Reid December 18, 2013 at 2:18 pm

The Vegas event is called Relationship10x LIVE or R10x LIVE for short, Bea! You can sign-up for free informational videos and learn more about R10x LIVE here: Join me in Las Vegas for Valentine’s!

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Bridget May 28, 2014 at 4:51 am

Reid,
I just “discovered” you- and have been watching and reading everything I can. I’m much more of a mess than I was aware – I had all but 2 of the jealousy triggers and I’m feeling stuck in the Victorian era to boot. I don’t even want to go into detail about my “relationship” here. Help!
I need a one on one with you!
Bridget

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Reid August 25, 2014 at 2:47 pm

Bridget! You can get all the info on coaching here: http://ReidAboutSex.com/coaching – let me know how I can help! 🙂

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Laurence McGrath May 11, 2019 at 10:36 pm

So when you coming to Michigan? A very proud of you McGrath wants to thank you!

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Heather July 25, 2019 at 10:14 am

Are you doing a workshop in Calgary anytime soon ?

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Reid October 4, 2019 at 11:19 am

Hey, Heather! I’m scheming to come back up to Canada in the New Year. Go to http://ReidAboutSex.com/elevator and download the Safer Sex Elevator Speech P.L.E.A.S.U.R.E. Acronym sheet, which will also add you to my email list! Win-Win!

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